Chloe Thurlow Quotes

Who knows why we do it? And when we've done it, nobody wants it. Still we keep doing it. That's what makes a writer a writer.

~ Chloe Thurlow

A rubber doll with a microchip can imitate human flesh without human feeling. Porn leaves an emptiness inside. Erotica sets up a vibration in the mind that sends pulsing waves through the body.

~ Chloe Thurlow

It's fun being a girl.

~ Chloe Thurlow

Happiness is a drug. It creates a biological change in the brain cells that inhibits negative feelings. Happiness boosts energy and increases energy in others.

~ Chloe Thurlow

Life is not a test or a competition. We only compete with ourselves.

~ Chloe Thurlow

Jealousy is only hurt ego. Revenge is meaningless. Life is abstract. There is no point other than pleasure.

~ Chloe Thurlow

You must write as if each word is a precious drop of blood, or a tear to be saved in a glass phial.

~ Chloe Thurlow

Every time you have an orgasm an angel comes to life..

~ Chloe Thurlow

The moment of orgasm is like the first dramatic moment of birth when you draw breath and scream out that you are alive. It is hard to imagine the moment when you fade back into the vacuum and draw your last breath.

~ Chloe Thurlow

Perfection is not something you strive for. Perfection is in the eyes of the beholder. Perfection is a state of grace, of peace of serenity, a moment as fleeting as a smile.

~ Chloe Thurlow

In life there are perfect moments. You cannot plan them - the very act interferes with the laws of the universe - but you must be ready to recognise them when they come.

~ Chloe Thurlow

There is a moment when time stops, when the air grows still, when you enter a state of nothingness, a state of purity and perfection. That is the moment to strive for.

~ Chloe Thurlow

Relationships are nine parts intuition, one part madness.

~ Chloe Thurlow

Love hurts. Love is fragile. Love comes like a breath of magic, then departs leaving us feeling empty, alone, a paper cup blowing on the wind.

~ Chloe Thurlow

Love and being in love are not the same. A woman takes the man she loves into her body and absorbs his oils and essence. A part of him enters her and becomes a part of her.

~ Chloe Thurlow

Sometimes love is pastel. Sometimes love is black. And sometimes love is fiery red and you feel as if you are going to burn in the flames.

~ Chloe Thurlow

I thought that love would last forever. But nothing is forever. Life is not forever. The only reliable permanence is change. Love hurts because change is painful. Love hurts because love lost is an assault on our ego. We fear that we will fail again and those who live in fear of failure slowly but inevitably fail.

~ Chloe Thurlow

Man was not born to be monogamous. What has changed in the 21st century – at 21 the world surely has come of age – is the understanding that woman is not meant to be monogamous either. Just as love hurts, new love heals.

~ Chloe Thurlow

While love lasts it should be relished, gobbled up like ice cream, explored as the conquistadors explored the unknown continent. But when love evaporates, when love hurts, we must learn to let go of the idea that love is forever.

~ Chloe Thurlow

Love is not a spaceship you construct and then fly off together into the stars. Love is a soap bubble that bursts in the air. Love is the first winter snowflake that falls into you palm, a mirage that glows in the sun and fades in the shadows.

~ Chloe Thurlow

Love enters us like a vague ailment. Your head spins. Your underarms tingle. Love hurts and love has consequences: marriage, babies, separation, longing, human complications.

~ Chloe Thurlow

Love and being in love are not the same thing. The woman takes the man she loves into her body and absorbs his oils and essence. A part of him enters her and becomes a part of her.

~ Chloe Thurlow

What is love? Imagine a helium balloon tied down and then you cut the ropes on a windy day. That is love.

~ Chloe Thurlow

I understood how strangers met and fell into bed, not how they met and fell in love. I wasn't sure what falling in love meant. The very notion seemed so corny, so arbitrary, so fragile.

~ Chloe Thurlow

I had avoided writing about love. I had never sensed that rush and buzz that comes with love, the release into the brain of body chemicals, pheromones and dopamine - the taste of love to which I was becoming addicted, his spearminty tongue when we kissed, his male sweat, the outdoor vanilla tang of his semen.

~ Chloe Thurlow

Love is a noun as well as a verb, a treacherous construct.

~ Chloe Thurlow

Is this love? The light looks different. Actually the shade looks different. I feel different. Everything is just so different I don't know where to begin...

~ Chloe Thurlow

I was besieged by a yearning, a craving, a burning desire. My heart had opened like one of those mysterious flowers that only bloom at night.

~ Chloe Thurlow

When it happens it happens instantly. It's like diving into a pool of warm silky water, like flying through the air on invisible wings, like shedding an old skin and growing a new one. When you fall in love the spirals of your DNA unwind and rewind in the opposite direction. What was black becomes white.

~ Chloe Thurlow

The way the leaves on the trees tremble in the passing air is the way love reaches you, from all directions at once, mysterious, overwhelming, indescribable. To be in love is to find something you didn't know was missing.

~ Chloe Thurlow

I was always in love with love and now I am in love. In love, everything looks different. Everything tastes different. It is as if you have been reborn, transformed, become another person whom you don't completely recognise.

~ Chloe Thurlow

The moment he left the warm sheets and the door clicked shut, I had that feeling you get when you are lost in a strange town at night. I curled into the chair where he had watched me undress and tears wet my cheeks. Then I dried my eyes, I looked in the mirror, and I said these two words. Never again.

~ Chloe Thurlow

In our own way, in your own way, we are all of us a masterpiece. Everyone is unique.

~ Chloe Thurlow

We are flowers in the field seeking our individuality. We may seem similar but we are all unique, without exception. Everyone is special.

~ Chloe Thurlow

If life is what you make it, the building blocks are your desire and your passion.

~ Chloe Thurlow

Innocence isn't something we lose, but realise we don't need.

~ Chloe Thurlow

From a book you can learn the theory but it takes practise to learn how to live life.

~ Chloe Thurlow

To listen to criticism and act on it if it is valid and ignore it if it is not is a sign of intelligence.

~ Chloe Thurlow

I had come to the conclusion that everyone took sex far too seriously. I mean, it's only sex.

~ Chloe Thurlow

Anything added can be subtracted, anything verbose can be simplified, anything missing can be found. Manuscripts are not books but negatives waiting for the fixer that turns them into prints.

~ Chloe Thurlow