I remember everything,' Bette Midler flatly notes. 'But you know how in life, you tend to hold grudges? Well, I don’t do that any more. Bad, bad stuff. I did as a young person, but it just wore me out. Oh, it really did! How many times can you wake up in the middle of the night gnashing your teeth? It’s so boring. Give it up!

~ Antonella Gambotto-Burke

Antonella Gambotto-Burke Adulthood Bette Midler Growing Up Grudges Vindictiveness

The person who offends, and the person who has been offended and awaiting for a revenge have one thing in common: the real uncertainties of tomorrow is truly uncertain to both of them.

~ Ernest Agyemang Yeboah

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In the room full of individuals for whom I hold feelings of resentment about, Who might be the first I would converse with, when I am about to bite the dust?

~ Nishikant

Nishikant Death Death And Dying Grudges Life Love The Papery Onions Thepaperyonions

Hatred, rancor and grudge, they are not humanity elements; but you need to have them to survive.

~ M.f. Moonzajer

M.f. Moonzajer Grudges Hatred Rancor

One of the reasons the team on NCIS works so well-is that they live by their leader's rules-which are not a secret .What are your rules/standards? Do the people in your life know what they are? Do you hold grudges/resentments when they don't measure up? Do you pretend that everything is fine-when it's not-and close up a little every day?And most importantly-When was the last time YOU reviewed/upgraded your standards/expectations rules-and took a look at the impact around you/checked in?(Hint-most people live from rules/standards/expectations created from reactions/perceptions formed around the age of six)Might be time for a review/upgrade........

~ Dave Rudbarg

Dave Rudbarg Expectations Grudges Leadersip Ncis Gibbs Resentments Rules Teamwork Upgrading

If you withhold love as a form of punishment, who is being punished?

~ Donald L. Hicks

Donald L. Hicks Cold Shoulder Grudges Judgement Judgemental Withholding

In my experience when a friend unloaded about a boyfriend or spouse, the listener soaked up the complaint and remembered it long after the speaker had forgiven the offense.

~ Sonia Sotomayor

Sonia Sotomayor Grudges Judgment Listening

Sometimes, you can hold a grudge for so long you forget why you were holding onto it. And before you know it, half a lifetime has gone by and all you’ve got is a empty fist and a lot of regret.

~ Benjamin Wood

Benjamin Wood Grudges Regrets