“ When women are encouraged to be competitive, too many of them become disagreeable. ”
Trust yourself. You know more than you think you do.
~ Benjamin Spock
In automobile terms, the child supplies the power but the parents have to do the steering.
Most middle-class whites have no idea what it feels like to be subjected to police who are routinely suspicious, rude, belligerent, and brutal.
There are only two things a child will share willingly - communicable diseases and his mother's age.