Clarissa Pinkola Estés said this quote
“ When the wildish woman has an idea, the friend or lover will never say, Well, I don't know . . . sounds really dumb [grandiose, undoable, expensive, etc.] to me. A right friend will never say that. They might say instead . . . I don't know if I understand. Tell me how you see it. Tell me how it will work. ”