Gail Caldwell said this quote

Hope in the beginning feels like such a violation of the loss, and yet without it we couldn't survive.

~ Gail Caldwell

The only education in grief that any of us ever gets is a crash course. Until Caroline had died I had belonged to that other world, the place of innocence, and linear expectations, where I thught grief was a simple, wrenching realm of sadness and longing that graduallu receded. What that definition left out was the body blow that loss inflicts, as well as the temporary madness, and a range of less straightforward emotions shocking in their intensity.

~ Gail Caldwell

Mostly I couldn't bear... the paltry notion that memory was all that eternal life really meant, and I spent too much time wondering where people got the fortitude or delusion to keep on moving past the static dead.

~ Gail Caldwell

It's and old, old story: I had a friend and we shared everything, and then she died and so we shared that, too.

~ Gail Caldwell