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“ Maris sighed, and put a gentle hand on his arm. We'll do what we must, Coll. We have no choice. He looked up at her now, looking to her again as the child to the mother; although he knew now that she was as helpless as he, still he hoped. Why don't we have a choice? I don't understand.Maris sighed. It's law, Coll. We don't go against tradition here, you know that. We all have duties put upon us. If we had a choice I would keep the wings, I would be a flyer. And you could be a singer. We'd both be proud, and know we were good at what we did. Life will be hard as a land-bound. I want the wings so much. I've had them, and it doesn't seem right that they should be taken from me, butmaybe—maybe the tightness in it is something I just don't see. People wiser than we decided that thingsshould be the way they are, and maybe, maybe I'm just being a child about it, wanting everything my own way. ”