Hermann Hesse said this quote
“ Why was it, do you think, I was able to recognise you and understand you?Why, Hermine? Tell me!Because it's the same for me as you because I am alone exactly as you are, because I'm as little fond of life and people and myself as you are and can put up with them as little. There are always a few such people who demand the utmost of life and yet cannot come to terms with its stupidity and crudeness. ”