Jo Walton said this quote

“ I'm only fifteen. I'm not sure I ever want to get married. I'm neither messing around while waiting nor looking for some real thing. What I want is much more complicated. I want somebody to talk about books, who would be my friend, and why couldn't we have sex as well if we wanted to? (And used contraception.) I'm not looking for romance. Lord Peter and Harriet would seem a pretty good model to me. I wonder if Wim has read Sayers? ”