“ People who keep stiff upper lips find that it's damn hard to smile. ”
Depending on the reality one must face, one may prefer to opt for illusion.
~ Judith Guest
People use people according to their own needs. Or don't use them. When a primary need is one of safety.
. . . crazy world or maybe it's just the view we have of it, looking through a crack in the door, never being able to see the whole room, the whole picture.
I keep telling you that feeling is not selective. You can't feel pain, you aren't gonna feel anything else either.