Kōbō Abe said this quote

Defeat begins with the fear that one had lost.

~ Kōbō Abe

Just as trees bear their fruit before winter, just as bamboo grass produces its seeds just before it withers, sex is simply a struggle with death on the human level.

~ Kōbō Abe

You can only do what you can no matter how you try.

~ Kōbō Abe

If I were just in trousers, somehow I could go out into the world. It would make no difference whether I was naked from the waist up and my feet bare just as long as I had trousers on. Otherwise if you go walking around the streets without trousers, no matter how new your shoes and how elegant your coat, it’s enough to raise a big hue and cry. Enlightened society is a kind of trouser society.

~ Kōbō Abe