Lavie Tidhar said this quote

Family wasn't like that, not really. It was not something small and compact, a nuclear family: it was a great big mess of people, all interlinked, cousins and aunts and relatives-by-marriage and otherwise--it was a network, like the Conversation or a human brain. It was what he had tried to escape, going into the Up and Out, but you cannot run away from family, it follows you, wherever you go.