Lee Goff said this quote
“ We love someone, so we care. That love can morph into feeling responsible for them, then into we're accountable, then into we're to blame for their self-inflicted pain; then it's our fault if they crash and burn; then the fear causes us to hold on even tighter. Walk this in reverse until you get back to, we love, we care. Now, love with wisdom. Step one in placing someone's life into His hands. ”