“ When a man's friend wins, a little piece of him dies. ”
As I mentioned earlier, women get mixed messages in childhood: You can do anything you want... but it wouldn't hurt to find someone who will take good care of you.
~ Lois P. Frankel
Give yourself a set period of time to grieve and heal before focusing on financial matters.
Money per se does not make you happy - it's what it enables you to do with your life.
Sometimes you just need to be selfish to be self-sufficient.