“ We may believe we are seeking happiness in love, but what we are really after is familiarity. ”
The road to calmer relationships therefore isn’t necessarily about removing points of contention. It’s rather about assuming that they are going to happen and that they will inevitably require quite a lot of time and thought to address
~ The School Of Life
We need to imagine the turmoil, disappointment, worry and sheer confusion in people who may outwardly appear merely aggressive.