Timothy S. Lane said this quote

Talk like an ambassador (Eph 4:29-30). 1)Consider the person (only what is helpful for building others up)2) Consider the problem (according to their needs)3) Consider the process (that it may benefit those who listen)

~ Timothy S. Lane

Every good relationship we have is a gift of God's grace. Left to ourselves, nothing good would happen. Our problem has everything to do with sin and our potential has everything to do with Christ. Sin always draws towards self-interest. It is possible that even in our most altruistic moments are driven by what we get out of them

~ Timothy S. Lane

If you look for God in your relationships, you will always find things to be thankful for. When God reigns in our hearts, peace reigns in our relationships. This work will only be complete in heaven but there is much we can enjoy now.

~ Timothy S. Lane

In God's plan, our quest for personal identity is meant to drive us back to him as Creator so that we find our meaning and purpose in him.When we live out a sense of who we are IN CHRIST we live our lives based on all we have been given by Christ. This keeps us from seeking to get those things from the people and situations around us. Much of the disappointments and heartache we experience is the result of our attempts to get something from relationships that we already have in Christ.

~ Timothy S. Lane