Change, I've come to understand, rises up like nausea: the promise of relief is what makes it bearable.

~ Durga Chew-Bose

Durga Chew-Bose Change

What tethers me to my parents is the unspoken dialogue we share about how much of my character is built on the connection I feel to the world they were raised in but that I've only experienced through photos, visits, food. It's not mine and yet, I get it. First-generation kids, I've always thought, are the personification of déjà vu.

~ Durga Chew-Bose

Durga Chew-Bose Assimilation Children Culture Diaspora Family First Generation Identity Immigrants Immigration Parents

A woman carries her inner life - lugs it around or holds it in fumes that both poison and bless her - while nourishing another's inner life, many others actually, while never revealing too much madness, or, possibly, never revealing where she stores it: her island of lost mind.

~ Durga Chew-Bose

Durga Chew-Bose Woman