Katie Kacvinsky Quotes

Don't worry about hurting me, if that's what you're afraid of. I want to get hurt. At least I´ll feel something for a change.

~ Katie Kacvinsky

Life should be a risk. It's more than a straight line that you can see clearly from one point to the other. It dips and curves and you never know what's around the bend sometimes until you get there. That scares a lot of people. But that's the beauty of it.

~ Katie Kacvinsky

Some people try to tell you the things you want in life are out of your grasp, while others lift you up on their shoulders and help you reach them. I may not know a lot, but I prefer to fill my life with people who let me climb on top of their shoulders, not people who try to keep me planted on the ground.

~ Katie Kacvinsky

it's good for you to write down your thoughts. It'stherapeutic because it forces you to slow down and think aboutlife.

~ Katie Kacvinsky

I’d rather fail miserably pursuing my dreams than succeed at something I have to settle for

~ Katie Kacvinsky

But pain's like water. It finds a way to push through any seal. There's no way to stop it. Sometimes you have to let yourself sink inside of it before you can learn how to swim to the surface.

~ Katie Kacvinsky

If you have confidence, if you believe in yourself, you can go anywhere.

~ Katie Kacvinsky

You're not saving lives, Dad. You can't save lives when no one's living anymore. (Maddie)

~ Katie Kacvinsky

Life is about mindfulness. It's about being in the moment, being aware.

~ Katie Kacvinsky

If you never leave where you come from, I don't think you'll ever figure out who you are, because how much is forced on you? How much of your personality is imposed instead of created? That's why I left. I think people need to leave in order to find their potential.

~ Katie Kacvinsky

I have more online contacts than I can count. I make about one hundred connections a day. I have access to millions of people. I use to think that I had friends in these numbers. But virtual friends are like stars stretched out in the sky. They’re out there, they exist, and I can imagine what they’re like, but we’ll never meet. We all just co-exist in this vast universe with a length of space between us.

~ Katie Kacvinsky

He was like a book, where each chapter picks up pace until you can't put it down. That's when you know you've made a friend - when you want to read more of his story.

~ Katie Kacvinsky

Oh, I just think that a neat house is the sign of a boring person, that's all. And I don't really like to associate with boring people if I can help it.

~ Katie Kacvinsky

I think music is seasonal. In the summer my taste changes.

~ Katie Kacvinsky

Thoughts are circular, they don't take you anywhere. They don't have feet-they can't gain any ground. They can trap you if you don't eventually stand up and make a move.

~ Katie Kacvinsky

You need to be able to fill that space on your own, Maddie. You should never have to rely on another person to make you feel whole. That life is dangerous.

~ Katie Kacvinsky

I think falling in love should come with a warning label: CAUTION—side effects may include breaking up, accompanied by heartache, severe mood swings, withdrawal from people and life itself, wasted hours obsessing over bitter reflections, a need to destroy something (preferably something expensive that shatters), uncontrollable tear ducts, stress, a loss of appetite (Cheetos and Dr. Pepper exempt), a bleak and narrow outlook on the future, and an overall hatred of everyone and everything (especially all the happy couples you see strolling hand-in-hand, placed on your path only to exacerbate your isolation and misery). All above reactions will be intensified with the consumption of one or more alcoholic beverages.

~ Katie Kacvinsky

It still hurts, but life is supposed to hurt. Too many people think life is supposed to be easy and perfect all the time. But there is always some hurt. It's part of being alive. You have to accept it's a piece that every single person carries. It's what makes us human.

~ Katie Kacvinsky

Some people say home is where you come from. But I think it’s a place you need to find, like it’s scattered and you pick pieces of it up along the way.

~ Katie Kacvinsky

The happiest people aren't necessarily the most successful, or the most popular, or the most talented. They're the ones who are interested in the people around them.

~ Katie Kacvinsky

Things never happen the way you plan. Take it a second at a time. Stay in the moment. It's the only way to control it. Your thoughts can paralyze you. They make you second-guess and that's when you lose. You mentally beat yourself. Believe you can handle anything. Look at something that's bigger than you and take it all in, the enormousness of it. Drown in it. Then take a step back. Comparmentalize it. Remember, anything's attainable. And take every risk you can, as long as you trust yourself.

~ Katie Kacvinsky

When you agree to help one person, you ultimately have to disappoint someone else; it's like a karmic law.

~ Katie Kacvinsky

What a forced lifestyle our technology, our inventions imposed on our lives when we tried to live synonymously with computers; when we stepped inside their world, we left the natural one behind.

~ Katie Kacvinsky

But I'm learning it's human nature to want the things you can't have. What changes is how you go about pursuing the things you want. When you're a little kid and you're told no, you scream and throw a temper tantrum. When you're a teenager and your parents tell you no, you're old enough to internalize your temper tantrum. But you're smarter and you're sneakier this time around. So you nod and act like you care when they say no, when they tell you who you can be friends with, when they say the know what's best. But then you go behind their backs to do it anyway. Because at some point, you need to start calling the shots. At some point, you need to start believing you know whats best. Or, I thought with a smile, you just stop asking for their permission in the first place.

~ Katie Kacvinsky

Letting go is easy. Anyone can do that. Love is fighting for someone to stay. That's what takes work.

~ Katie Kacvinsky

By the way, the other reason I agreed to help you is because I love your eyes. You have the most beautiful eyes. It's my weakness.

~ Katie Kacvinsky

I realized how hard it that must have been, how much hurt when you know the only way to help someone is to give him distance. So I let him go.

~ Katie Kacvinsky

Maybe it takes tragedy to create paradise.

~ Katie Kacvinsky

I rolled my eyes. He's talking to himself. My vote is he's crazy. He thought about this. Maybe he's normal and we're the crazy ones. Maybe everyone should talk to themselves. Maybe we're all just afraid of what we'd say.

~ Katie Kacvinsky

Maybe he’s normal and we’re the crazy ones. Maybe everyone should talk to themselves. Maybe we’re all just afraid of what we’d say.

~ Katie Kacvinsky

I'm inlove with him. Completely. Absolutely. Tragically.

~ Katie Kacvinsky

...don't be afraid to fall. Your wings will catch you.

~ Katie Kacvinsky

It's ironic..here is life passing, like clouds drifting over the sky, yet they don't see what's in front of them. They believe there is something more substantial going on in that little screen in their hands.

~ Katie Kacvinsky

But how can you be there for someone who doesn't need you? It's like trying to scale a wall without anyone on the top throwing you a rope. You just keep sliding down and eventually your muscles give out, and your energy and your will and your heart.

~ Katie Kacvinsky