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A cry for attention is positioned as a crime, as if attention were inherently a selfish thing to want. But isn’t wanting attention one of the most fundamental traits of being human—​and isn’t granting it one of the most important gifts we can ever give?

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Leslie Jamison Attention Humanity Need

Pain without cause is a pain we can't trust. We assume it's been chosen or fabricated.

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Leslie Jamison Empathy Pain Suffering

We want our wounds to speak for themselves, but usually we end up having to speak for them.

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Leslie Jamison Pain Wounds

Freedom from one man is just another one.

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Leslie Jamison Feminism Freedom Women

It was a look that suggested emotions happening just past your line of sight: a grief so deep you'd never be able to see it, a love so fierce it could swallow itself completely.

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Leslie Jamison Grief Love

Empathy comes from the Greek empatheia - em (into) and pathos (feeling) - a penetration, a kind of travel. It suggests you enter another person's pain as you'd enter another country, through immigration and customs, border crossing by way of query: What grows where you are? What are the laws? What animals graze there?

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Leslie Jamison Empathy Pain Travel

Jim was the one who told me that my emotional life made him dangle his stethoscope like a snake charmer: my moods weren’t hard to see but they were hard to read, and even harder to diagnose. It was ostensibly a complaint, but I think he liked his metaphor, and liked that our moments of distance were subtle enough to require this kind of formulation. Meaning that I was a complex creature and so was he; that he became even more complex in his attempt to bridge the gap between our complexities; that he could create a complicated image to house this complex of complications. This is how writers fall in love: they feel complicated together and then they talk about it.

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Leslie Jamison Love Mood Relationships Writers

Bad movies and bad writing and easy cliches still manage to make us feel things toward each other. Part of me is disgusted by this. Part of me celebrates it.

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Leslie Jamison Cliché Feelings Sentiment

We think we should have to work in order to feel. We want to have our cake resist us; and then we want to eat it, too.

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Leslie Jamison Feelings Sentiment

Irony is easier than hopeless silence but braver than flight.

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Leslie Jamison Bravery Irony Silence

facts are aligned on shelves as well, necessarily chosen and arranged, assigned value by explanations neatly stuck where prices might have been.

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Leslie Jamison Explanations Facts Shelves Value

Commonality doesn't inoculate against hurt.

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Leslie Jamison Hurt Pain

It hurts to watch the fluency of a body acclimated to its shackling.

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Leslie Jamison Body Fluency Shackling

Empathy isn't just something that happens to us - a meteor shower of synapses firing across the brain - it's also a choice we make: to pay attention, to extend ourselves. It's made of exertion, that dowdier cousin of impulse. Sometimes we care for another because we know we should, or because it's asked for, but this doesn't make our caring hollow. This confession of effort chafes against the notion that empathy should always rise unbidden, that genuine means the same thing as unwilled, that intentionality is the enemy of love. But I believe in intention and I believe in work. I believe in waking up in the middle of the night and packing our bags and leaving our worst selves for our better ones.

~ Leslie Jamison

Leslie Jamison Empathy

Sure, some news is bigger news than other news. War is bigger news than a girl having mixed feelings about the way some guy fucked her and didn't call. But I don't believe in a finite economy of empathy; I happen to think that paying attention yields as much as it taxes.

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Leslie Jamison Empathy News Tragedy

I didn't enjoy what was happening but I enjoyed who I was while I was watching it. It offered evidence of my own inclination toward empathy.

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Leslie Jamison Empathy

Empathy means realizing no trauma has discrete edges. Trauma bleeds. out of wounds and across boundaries. Sadness becomes seizure. Empathy demands another kind of porousness in response. My Stephanie script is twelve pages long. I think mainly about what it doesn't say.

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Leslie Jamison Empathy

Empathy is a kind of care but it’s not the only kind of care, and it’s not always enough.

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Leslie Jamison Care Empathy Love

Imagining someone else's pain with too much surety can be as damaging as failing to imagine it.

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Leslie Jamison Empathy Pain

We like who we become in response to injustice: it makes it easy to choose a side. Our capacity to care, to get angry, is called forth like some muscle we weren't entirely aware we had.

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Leslie Jamison Empathy Injustice

I needed people to deliver my feelings back to me in a form that was legible. Which is a superlative kind of empathy to seek, or to supply: an empathy that rearticulates more clearly what it's shown.

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Leslie Jamison Empathy

Empathy isn't just listening, it's asking the questions whose answers need to be listened to.

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Leslie Jamison Empathy Listening

This is the grand fiction of tourism, that bringing our bodies somewhere draws that place closer to us, or we to it. It's a quick fix of empathy.

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Leslie Jamison Empathy Tourism

Empathy means realizing no trauma has discrete edges. Trauma bleeds.

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Leslie Jamison Empathy Trauma

Empathy isn’t just listening, it’s asking the questions whose answers need to be listened to. Empathy requires inquiry as much as imagination. Empathy requires knowing you know nothing. Empathy means acknowledging a horizon of context that extends perpetually beyond what you can see.

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Leslie Jamison Empathy

It's easier, somehow, if there's a reason for tragedy - lust or jealousy or hatred or revenge. We can find in these explanations an emotional tenor commensurate with the gravity of the act. There's something we recognize as human, a motive toward which we can direct our rage but can also understand, at some primal level, as an extension of ourselves.

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Leslie Jamison Injustice Tragedy

No trauma has discrete edges. Trauma bleeds. Out of wounds and across boundaries.

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Leslie Jamison Trauma

Metaphors are tiny saviors leading the way out of sentimentality, small disciples of Pound, urging Say it new! Say it new! It's hard for emotion to feel flat if its language is suitably novel, to feel excessive if its rendering is suitably opaque. Metaphors translate emotion into surprising and sublime language, but they also help us deflect and diffuse the glare of revelation.

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Leslie Jamison Metaphor Pound Sentimentality

Bolivian women sewed their lips shut for days. They threaded needles through their skin to stop their speech, to show what good speaking had done them.

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Leslie Jamison Protest Speech Theatre

The pain is what you make of it. You have to find something in it that yields. I understood my guiding imperative as: keep bleeding, but find some love in the blood.

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Leslie Jamison Blood Love Pain

I loved the full heat of being drunk, like I was made of melting chocolate and spreading in all directions.

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Leslie Jamison Drinking Drunk Drunken Behaviour Drunkenness
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