Melissa Bank Quotes

You have to shrink yourself to fit into this little life with him.

~ Melissa Bank

But then you hear that he can't hear you, you see that he can't see you. You are not here--and you haven't even died yet. You see yourself through his eyes, as The Generic Woman, the skirted symbol on the ladies' room door.

~ Melissa Bank

Even now, he is every blue blazer getting into cab, every runner along the river,every motorcycle coming and going.

~ Melissa Bank

You will say good-bye for all the right reasons. You're tired of living in wait for his apocalypse. You have your own fight on your hands, and though it's no bigger or more noble than his, it will require all of your energy.It's you who has to hold on to earth. You have to tighten your grip -- which means letting go of him.

~ Melissa Bank

They were a couple in a way that didn't exclude anyone but seemed superior to every other relationship in the room.

~ Melissa Bank

Up until that moment, I'd been at the earliest stage of love, when you feel it will turn you into the person you want to be. Now, his gentle voice and sage advice took me to a later stage: I felt I needed to pretend to be a better person than I was so he'd keep loving me. This was hard because it made me hate him.

~ Melissa Bank

There are things that two people say in the middle of the night That don't make sense to a third at breakfast.

~ Melissa Bank

It occurred to me that the quiet in the suburbs had nothing to do with peace.

~ Melissa Bank

You can feel like he wants to own you,-not like an object but like a good dream he wants to keep having.

~ Melissa Bank

I'd already figured out that not understanding my failings was another one of my failings.

~ Melissa Bank

It isn't you,' he says, as though you're to be comforted by the irrelevant role you play in your own life.

~ Melissa Bank

Until that moment, it hadn't occurred to me that my grades and test scores over the years were anything more than individual humiliations; I hadn't realized that one day all of them would add up and count against me.

~ Melissa Bank

Finally, I asked how you got a boy to like you back. She said, 'Just be yourself,' as though I had any idea who that might be.

~ Melissa Bank

I feel in some ways I've had a difficult life. And it makes me the kind of writer I am, in what I value, what I respect, what I hold dear.

~ Melissa Bank