Sherry Argov Quotes

That's the big picture, your happiness. And health. You should never care what a man thinks of you -- until he demonstrates to you that he cares about making you happy. If he isn't trying to make you happy, then send him back from whence he came because winning him over will have no benefit. At the end of the day, happines, joy...and yes...your emotional stability...those comprise the only measuring stick you really need to have.

~ Sherry Argov

Bitch (noun): A woman who won't bang her head against the wall obsessing over someone else's opinion - be it a man or anyone else in her life. She understands that if someone does not approve of her, it's just one person's opinion; therefore, it's of no real importance. She doesn't try to live up to anyone else's standards - only her own. Because of this, she relates to a man very differently.

~ Sherry Argov

Anytime a woman competes with another woman she demeans herself.

~ Sherry Argov

Once you start laughing, you start healing.

~ Sherry Argov

He must feel that you choose to be with him, not that you need to be with him.

~ Sherry Argov

Truly powerful people don't explain why they want respect. They simply don't engage someone who doesn't give it to them.

~ Sherry Argov

If you allow your rhythm to be interrupted, you'll create a void. Then to replace what you give up, you'll start to expect and need more from your partner.

~ Sherry Argov

If she has six good points and you have one semigood little point, place all of the emphasis on your one semigood little point.

~ Sherry Argov

And remember, it's always her fault. That's your story and you're sticking to it.

~ Sherry Argov

If she is clearly right, find fault with her that has nothing to do with the incident, and use that.

~ Sherry Argov

Many people lack the basic equipment to be in a relationship and there's nothing you can do to change it. You can't take a skunk and dip it in perfume and hope it becomes a puppy. Eventually, the perfume will wear off and you'll still have a skunk on your hands.

~ Sherry Argov

Men don't respond to words. What they respond to is no contact.

~ Sherry Argov

The more independent you are of him, the more interested he will be.

~ Sherry Argov

Before sex, a man isn't thinking clearly and a woman is thinking clearly. After sex, it reverses. The man is thinking clearly and a woman isn't.

~ Sherry Argov

Most women are starving to receive something from a man that they need to give to themselves

~ Sherry Argov

When a man takes a woman for granted, he still looks for reassurance that she is still right there.

~ Sherry Argov

It is your attitude about yourself that a man will adopt.

~ Sherry Argov

If a man isn't being nice when you're out, all you have to do is remain polite and then go home early.

~ Sherry Argov

Expressing yourself when he takes for granted doesn't work.

~ Sherry Argov

For a woman the objective is often a committed relationship also known as the destination. For a men roadtrip on the way to the destination is often the more fun.

~ Sherry Argov

Women are conditioned to give themselves away.

~ Sherry Argov

Be an independent thinker at all times, and ignore anyone who attempts to define you in a limiting way.

~ Sherry Argov

This is a touch game. There are times when you've got to play hurt when you've got to block out the pain.

~ Sherry Argov

Men secretly respect a woman who is strong, has confidence and has dreams of her own. There's nothing more attractive to a man than a woman who has dignity and pride in who she is.

~ Sherry Argov

Everybody has fallen down or been disappointed in love. Where you truly shine is when you get back up. Use it as a learning experience and believe in all of the possibilities.

~ Sherry Argov

The nice girl thinks she's giving up something to get something better in return. She gives up control over her own life. When the time comes for her to get what she expected, she winds up disappointed. In addition to being empty-handed, she's depleted.

~ Sherry Argov