To build a respectful, kind and loving relationship, begin by being respectful, kind and loving to yourself
~ Shya Kane
If you are satisfied, you bring your satisfaction to the moment and fill the circumstances of your life with that satisfaction. If you are dissatisfied, however, no one and nothing can produce contentment for you.
If you cannot be yourself in a relationship, you no longer have one.
Having fun is a pretty powerful way to start any serious relationship.