Susan Crandall Quotes

My daddy says that when you do somethin' to distract you from your worstest fears, it's like whistlin' past the graveyard. You know, making a racket to keep the scaredness and the ghosts away. He says that's how we get by sometimes. But it's not weak, like hidin'...it's strong. It means you're able to go on.

~ Susan Crandall

She leaned down so she was looking right in my eyes. You hear me, child. you can't use other folks' bad behavior to excuse your own. When we got a choice, we keep Jesus in our hearts and don't do nothing that would make him ashamed.

~ Susan Crandall

A body can't run from what they done. They carry it with them inside. It fester and spread like poison if it's buried. It gotta be out in the air where it can heal.

~ Susan Crandall

She slammed down the phone. The sharp bang shattered my heart like a bottle hitting the sidewalk

~ Susan Crandall

I locked the door and turned on the water to fill the tub. I made it so hot that I had to get in real slow. I wanted it to hurt, wanted my outside to feel as bad as my inside. I sat there a long time watching my skin turn redder and redder... Finally my insides was as fiery as my skin. I liked the burn and hoped it took everything I'd been wishing for and turned it to ashes.

~ Susan Crandall

I know you didn’t see the violence and need for control in him in the beginning, but I’m sure it was there. Nothing you did turned him into such an abusive man. And you … well, you just didn’t see your own value before that. It’s an easy thing for a woman to overlook. We’re taught from the cradle that men rule.

~ Susan Crandall

My daddy always said being brave wasn’t not being scared. Being brave was keeping going when you were.

~ Susan Crandall