Those who laugh with you when you laugh are acquaintances, those who cry with you when you cry are companions, and those who do both are friends.
~ Matshona Dhliwayo
Pain that results in success is better than pleasure that results in failure.
~ Matshona Dhliwayo
If you want little, give little; if you want much, give much; if you want all, give all.
~ Matshona Dhliwayo
Teach yourself. Help yourself. Improve yourself. Enrich yourself.
~ Matshona Dhliwayo
If bees only gathered nectar from perfect flowers, they wouldn’t be able to make even a single drop of honey.
~ Matshona Dhliwayo
The ugliest storms paint the loveliest rainbows.
~ Matshona Dhliwayo
Water drops erode mountains not because of their size, but their persistence.
~ Matshona Dhliwayo
The tallest trees sometimes grow from the smallest seeds.
~ Matshona Dhliwayo
Thunder roars but does not strike. Lightning strikes but does not roar. Choose to be lightning.
~ Matshona Dhliwayo
An archer must never blame a target for missing it.
~ Matshona Dhliwayo
You can paint the whole sky black, but that won’t keep stars from shinning.
~ Matshona Dhliwayo
If your greatest wish is to be happy, you are clever; if it is to make others happy, you are virtuous; but if it is to make yourself and others happy, you are wise.
~ Matshona Dhliwayo
The sun is intelligent because it never rises too early, and wise because it never sets too late.
~ Matshona Dhliwayo
If there is wisdom in your mind, prove it; joy in your heart, share it; love in your soul, show it; good in your life, impart it.
~ Matshona Dhliwayo
A small sharp axe clears a forest quicker than a big blunt one.
~ Matshona Dhliwayo
The early bird gets the worm, and the early fox gets the bird.
~ Matshona Dhliwayo
The worm’s bad luck is the bird’s good fortune.
~ Matshona Dhliwayo
Rest as if you’ll live forever, work as if you’ll die today.
~ Matshona Dhliwayo
Losing teaches you how to win, winning teaches you how not to lose.
~ Matshona Dhliwayo
A dove struggling in a storm grows stronger than an eagle soaring in sunshine.
~ Matshona Dhliwayo
A tree is only as good as the seed it is stems from.
~ Matshona Dhliwayo
Faith moves mountains, intelligence goes over them, wisdom goes around them, but love levels them.
~ Matshona Dhliwayo
The world is full of angels; if you can’t find one, be one.
~ Matshona Dhliwayo
You are better than your past, greater than your present, and brighter than your future.
~ Matshona Dhliwayo
Be merry, because it confuses your enemies; happy, because it annoys them; cheerful, because it angers them; and joyful, because it kills them.
~ Matshona Dhliwayo
One who protects himself from negative thoughts protects himself from negative outcomes.
~ Matshona Dhliwayo
The greatest universe is not somewhere out there, but inside of yourself.
~ Matshona Dhliwayo
The most beautiful people are those who bring out the beauty in others.
~ Matshona Dhliwayo
Time crawls when you are bored, walks when you are occupied, runs when you are busy, but flies when you are having fun.
~ Matshona Dhliwayo
Your clock cannot buy you more time, your bed cannot get you more sleep, your titles cannot acquire you more influence, your fame cannot gain you more honor, and your money cannot earn you more happiness.
~ Matshona Dhliwayo
Think before you speak. Question before you judge. Examine before you decide.
~ Matshona Dhliwayo
If you have the power to think, you have the power to change your world.
~ Matshona Dhliwayo
If birds sing without worrying about who is listening to them, and monkeys dance without worrying about who is watching them, and hyenas laugh without worrying about who is mocking them, then you too must do what you do best without worrying about who is ridiculing you.
~ Matshona Dhliwayo
Reward those who help you. Forget those who use you. Ignore those who judge you. Forgive those who wrong you.
~ Matshona Dhliwayo
One good friend is better than a thousand acquaintances.
~ Matshona Dhliwayo
Listen to all, believe few, count on some, but trust none.
~ Matshona Dhliwayo
In my youth I had three teachers: friends, enemies, and books. In my adulthood I had three professors: God, nature, and life.
~ Matshona Dhliwayo
It is in vain to chase two birds at the same time, even if you have a thousand legs.
~ Matshona Dhliwayo