True love isn't expressed in passionately whispered words an intimate kiss or a embrace; before two people are married, love is expressed in self-control, patience, even words left unsaid.
~ Joshua Harris
Every relationship for a Christian is an opportunity to love another person like God has loved us.
Having a girlfriend was no longer my greatest need. Knowing and obeying Him was . I wanted to please Him in my relationships even if it meant looking radical and foolish to other people - even if it meant kissing dating goodbye.
...for Christians typical dating can often be a swerver - an approach to relationships that wants to go in a different direction than the one God has for us.