Things come into your memory even when you don’t want them to, that is because ‘pratikraman dosh’ is pending (mistake for which pratikraman was not done yet).
~ Dada Bhagwan
When you see the members of your household as faultless (nirdosh) and see only your own faults, then true pratikraman will be done.
You (must) do plenty of ‘pratikraman’. Do the ‘pratikraman’ for an hour every day of everyone who is living around you, whomever you have harassed.
What happens by doing ‘pratikraman’? The interferences that we have done (in the past), and its ‘reaction’ which will come (now), on that (reactions), we will not feel like interfering again.
When you do pratikraman after conflict, the conflict is erased. When you give rise to new conflicts, the energies that had arisen will disappear again.
Desires occur because pratyakhyan [resolutions to not repeat the mistake] were not done. It comes in the memory because pratikraman [repentances] were not done.