Dan Savage said this quote

The truly revolutionary promise of our nation's founding document is the freedom to pursue happiness-with-a-capital-H.

~ Dan Savage

How can you tell somebody who is pursuing happiness that they're somehow not American when that was the very first promise that America made?

~ Dan Savage

One person simply can’t be all things to another person – sexually or otherwise—and unmet needs, unfulfilled desire, and unexplored possibilities are prices we pay to be in LTRs (long –term relationships). Monogamous, polyamorous, Femdom, or whatever: All couples people walk around feeling a little unfulfilled. (Single people, too). Because no one gets everything they want.

~ Dan Savage

Christmas can have a real melancholy aspect, 'cause it packages itself as this idea of perfect family cohesion and love, and you're always going to come up short when you measure your personal life against the idealized personal lives that are constantly thrust in our faces, primarily by TV commercials.

~ Dan Savage