“ When it's about your life, it's time to be selfish. ”
If you have time to whine then you have time to find solution.
~ Dee Dee Artner
Don't interpret anything too much. This is time waster number 1.
Blaming others is an act of refusing to take responsibility. When a person can’t accept the fact or the reality, they blamed another person or the situation instead of taking accountability.
The potential of controlling and living a successful life according to your terms depends on how you think. Your perception is your world. You can create the life you want and in fact, you can even shape it the way you want it.