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“ To forgive someone means to let him off the hook, or to cancel a debt he owes you. When you refuse to forgive someone, you still want something from that person, and even if it is revenge you want, it keeps you tied to him forever. ”

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You aren't alive if you aren't in need.

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Henry Cloud Being Alive Emotional Needs Love Need Needs Relationships

This is one of the marks of a truly safe person: they are confrontable.

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Henry Cloud Confrontation Disagreements Healthy Relationships Relationships

Defensive devaluation is a protective device that makes love bad, trust unimportant and people no darn good any way. People who have been deeply hurt in their relationships will often devalue love so it doesn't hurt so much. And they often become resigned to never loving again.

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Henry Cloud Avoiding Pain Bad Relationships Devaluation No Good Relationships

Freedom comes from taking responsibility, bondage comes from giving it away.

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Henry Cloud Bondage Freedom Responsibilty