Jessica Valenti said this quote
“ Consider another abstinence product: a gold rose pin handed out in schools or at Christian youth events. The pin is attached to a small card that reads, You are like a beautiful rose. Each time you engage is pre-marital sex a previous petal is stripped away. Don't leave your future husband holding a bare stem. Abstain.Do we really want to teach our daughters that without their virginity they're nothing but a bare stem? ”