You can't raise happy kids in a happy family if you aren't happy and don't know who you are. You can't pin your life on someone else's happiness.
~ Jean Oram
Why not surround yourself with things that make you content? After all, there's no place like home.
You didn't date someone to change him. You dated him because you wanted him for the way he was. Flaws and fears and all.
That woman could spread gossip faster than the flu in a whorehouse.