John Updike Quotes

Every marriage tends to consist of an aristocrat and a peasant. Of a teacher and a learner.

~ John Updike

A healthy male adult bore consumes each year one and a half times his own weight in other people's patience.

~ John Updike

We're past the age of heroes and hero kings... Most of our lives are basically mundane and dull, and it's up to the writer to find ways to make them interesting.

~ John Updike

To guarantee the individual maximum freedom within a social frame of minimal laws ensures - if not happiness - its hopeful pursuit.

~ John Updike

Each morning my characters greet me with misty faces willing, though chilled, to muster for another day's progress through the dazzling quicksand the marsh of blank paper.

~ John Updike

The substance of fictional architecture is not bricks and mortar but evanescent consciousness.

~ John Updike

We are most alive when we're in love.

~ John Updike

The inner spaces that a good story lets us enter are the old apartments of religion.

~ John Updike

The cinema has done more for my spiritual life than the church. My ideas of fame, success and beauty all originate from the big screen. Whereas Christian religion is retreating everywhere and losing more and more influence; film has filled the vacuum and supports us with myths and action-controlling images.

~ John Updike

Religion enables us to ignore nothingness and get on with the jobs of life.

~ John Updike

Existence itself does not feel horrible; it feels like an ecstasy, rather, which we have only to be still to experience.

~ John Updike

A leader is one who, out of madness or goodness, volunteers to take upon himself the woe of the people. There are few men so foolish, hence the erratic quality of leadership in the world.

~ John Updike

In fiction, imaginary people become realer to us than any named celebrity glimpsed in a series of rumored events, whose causes and subtler ramifications must remain in the dark. An invented figure like Anna Karenina or Emma Bovary emerges fully into the light of understanding, which brings with it identification, sympathy and pity.

~ John Updike

That a marriage ends is less than ideal; but all things end under heaven, and if temporality is held to be invalidating, then nothing real succeeds.

~ John Updike

The first breath of adultery is the freest; after it, constraints aping marriage develop.

~ John Updike

Mars has long exerted a pull on the human imagination. The erratically moving red star in the sky was seen as sinister or violent by the ancients: The Greeks identified it with Ares, the god of war; the Babylonians named it after Nergal, god of the underworld. To the ancient Chinese, it was Ying-huo, the fire planet.

~ John Updike

I know more about what it's like to be elderly and infirm and kind of stupid, the way you get forgetful, but on the other hand I'm a littler, wiser, dare we say? The word 'wisdom' has kind of faded out of our vocabulary, but yeah, I'm a little wiser.

~ John Updike

Now that I am sixty, I see why the idea of elder wisdom has passed from currency.

~ John Updike

The Founding Fathers in their wisdom decided that children were an unnatural strain on parents. So they provided jails called schools, equipped with tortures called an education.

~ John Updike

Writing criticism is to writing fiction and poetry as hugging the shore is to sailing in the open sea.

~ John Updike

I must say, when I reread myself, it's the poetry I tend to look at. It's the most exciting to write, and it's over the quickest.

~ John Updike

Most of American life consists of driving somewhere and then returning home, wondering why the hell you went.

~ John Updike

Writers may be disreputable, incorrigible, early to decay or late to bloom but they dare to go it alone.

~ John Updike