Don’t wait for people to locate you. Rather, reach out to people and help to bring them to Christ
~ Sunday Adelaja
When you begin to pursue your promised land, you get a lot of prohibitions and temptations
Until you take time to discover yourself, you never know what you can achieve or how far you can go
Leaders are not born, but made as a result of hard work
Time is a running factor; once it goes, it cannot be reclaimed
Don’t procrastinate, start building yourself now!
Don’t just save yourself alone, also bring salvation the people around you
To be relevant, you need to be purposeful
Don’t just practice religion, abide by the principles of Christ
When you provide things for free to meet their needs and help them discover their skills, they automatically become your family
As Christians, we should live a Kingdom-driven life
Take principles, not just religion, to people
To bring relevance to people, you have to be able to speak their language effectively
To fully carry out your purpose as believers, you have to discover where the people you want to minister to are
Demonstrate love to the people first, and then teach them to observe biblical principles
Don’t limit yourself, discover new areas of expertise
For every day spent at a job, you empty your life
When you accept employment, you are admitting that you cannot think or develop yourself
When you lose your job, you gain ownership of your life
People with victim mentality get accustomed to life with an assistance of someone’s mind, waiting for someone to make decisions for him
The negative way of thinking based on constant complaints, strains, and objections of discontent steals our energy
People with victim mentality attracts people in their lives that tease them, abuse them and even bully them instead of building mutually benefitting relationships
Step beyond the scopes and limits because a narrow minded person has such boundaries of thinking “I cannot , but I must
A person with a victim complex is incapable of achieving his goal without someone’s assistance, advice and prompts
Life can be spent in an atmosphere of continuous encouragement, you will ignore the complex and it will disappear
Files of the past can be changed through shock, encouragement or pain
We underestimate ourselves, we do not believe in our strength, abilities, and talents and we have a distorted vision of ourselves
Parents are labelling, criticizing and reproaching the child on any account
Without accepting our personality, we try to meet the requirements of the society and do everything to be accepted
You cannot act in the old way, as you got used to, as you have been programmed in your childhood, you will have to change yourself or otherwise you will not survive
Thinking can change through the pronunciation of the word of God in your life , because it contains enough strength and energy to change your sub-consciousness
If you are indecisive, make decisions quickly and act in accordance with your decisions you will be able to acquire a new habit
Without accepting ourselves, we try to meet requirements of society and do everything to be accepted
A person with victim mentality cannot find himself, his life mission, and go towards his aims
People with victim mentality, consider actions such as making decisions, setting goals and achieving them to be nothing more than formidable obstacles
People with victim mentality often do not have life purpose, because they do not know how to acquire them unless someone plans their future for them
If a child is loved, he feels worthy of love in the future
If a child is roughly treated and not respected and not shown love, the child will have problems with self-esteem
For parents, it is important to respect the personality of a child
In order to change thinking into the positive way, we need to analyze what complexes we have received
