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Don't think of introversion as something that needs to be cured...Spend your free the way you like, not the way you think you're supposed to.

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Susan Cain Inspirational Introverts Susan Cain

What's so magical about solitude? In many fields, Ericsson told me, it's only when you're alone that you can engage in Deliberate Practice, which he has identified as the key to exceptional achievement. When you practice deliberately, you identify the tasks or knowledge that are just out of your reach, strive to upgrade your performance, monitor your progress, and revise accordingly. Practice sessions that fall short of this standard are not only less useful - they're counterproductive. They reinforce existing cognitive mechanisms instead of improving them.

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Susan Cain Inspirational Wisdom

A Manifesto for Introverts1. There's a word for 'people who are in their heads too much': thinkers.2. Solitude is a catalyst for innovation.3. The next generation of quiet kids can and must be raised to know their own strengths.4. Sometimes it helps to be a pretend extrovert. There will always be time to be quiet later.5. But in the long run, staying true to your temperament is key to finding work you love and work that matters.6. One genuine new relationship is worth a fistful of business cards.7. It's OK to cross the street to avoid making small talk.8. 'Quiet leadership' is not an oxymoron.9. Love is essential; gregariousness is optional.10. 'In a gentle way, you can shake the world.' -Mahatma Gandhi

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Susan Cain Inspiration Introversion Introverts Introverts Susan Cain Quote Personality Personality Types Quiet Quietness

So the next time you see a person with a compose face and a soft voice, remember that inside her mind she might be solving an equation, composing a sonnet, designing a hat. She might, that is, be deploying the powers of quiet.

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Susan Cain Encouragement Inspiration Introversion

The key to flow is to pursue an activity for its own sake, not for the rewards it brings.

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Susan Cain Inspirational Introverts Passion Rewards Success

Because conflict-avoidant Emily would never “bite” or even hiss unless Greg had done something truly horrible, on some level she processes his bite to mean that she’s terribly guilty—of something, anything, who knows what?

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Susan Cain Anger Conflict Relationships

Solve problems, make art, think deeply.

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Susan Cain Art Introversion Life Life Philosophy Make Art Solve Problems Think Deeply Thinking

Open-plan offices have been found to reduce productivity and impair memory. They’re associated with high staff turnover. They make people sick, hostile, unmotivated, and insecure.

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Susan Cain Office Space Work

Use your natural powers - of persistence, concentration, and insight - to do work you love and work that matters. Solve problems, make art, and think deeply

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Susan Cain Deep Thinking Power

There is no one more courageous than the person who speaks with the courage of his convictions.

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Susan Cain Courage

Introverts, in contrast, may have strong social skills and enjoy parties and business meetings, but after a while wish they were home in their pajamas. They prefer to devote their social energies to close friends, colleagues, and family. They listen more than they talk, think before they speak, and often feel as if they express themselves better in writing than in conversation. They tend to dislike conflict. Many have a horror of small talk, but enjoy deep discussions.

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Susan Cain Introversion Psychology Sociology

It's not that there is no small talk...It's that it comes not at the beginning of conversations but at the end...Sensitive people...'enjoy small talk only after they've gone deep' says Strickland. 'When sensitive people are in environments that nurture their authenticity, they laugh and chitchat just as much as anyone else.

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Susan Cain Psychology

Introverts living under the Extroversion Ideal are like women in a man’s world, discounted because of a trait that goes to the core of who they are. Extroversion is an enormously appealing personality style, but we’ve turned it into an oppressive standard to which most of us feel we must conform

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Susan Cain Introvert Psychology

If personal space is vital to creativity, so is freedom from peer pressure.

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Susan Cain Creativity Extroverts Freedom Individuality Introversion Introvert Introverts Teamwork

The longer you pause to process surprising or negative feedback, the more likely you are to learn from it.

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Susan Cain Inspirational Learning Negativity

Introverts need to trust their gut and share their ideas as powerfully as they can.

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Susan Cain Ideas Introverts Trust

Osborn was a founding partner of the advertising agency Batten, Barton, Durstine, and Osborn (BBDO), but it was as an author that he really made his mark, beginning with the day in 1938 that a magazine editor invited him to lunch and asked what his hobby was. “Imagination,” replied Osborn.

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Susan Cain Imagination Introversion

...I also believe that introversion is my greatest strength. I have such a strong inner life that I’m never bored and only occasionally lonely. No matter what mayhem is happening around me, I know I can always turn inward.

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Susan Cain Boredom Inner Life Introversion Loneliness Strengths

The trick for introverts is to honor their styles instead of allowing themselves to be swept up by prevailing norms.

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Susan Cain Introverts Norms Self Awareness Self Esteem Success

Scores of studies have shown that venting doesn't soothe anger, it fuels it.

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Susan Cain Anger

Extroverts are more likely to take a quick-and-dirty approach to problem-solving, trading accuracy for speed, making increasing numbers of mistakes as they go, and abandoning ship altogether when the problem seems too difficult or frustrating. Introverts think before they act, digest information thoroughly, stay on task longer, give up less easily, and work more accurately. Introverts and extroverts also direct their attention differently: if you leave them to their own devices, the introverts tend to sit around wondering about things, imagining things, recalling events from their past, and making plans for the future. The extroverts are more likely to focus on what's happening around them. It's as if extroverts are seeing what is while their introverted peers are asking what if.

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Susan Cain Accuracy Extroverts Focus Introverts Problem Solving Processing Information Tendencies Thinking Thought Patterns

Ask your child for information in a gentle, nonjudgmental way, with specific, clear questions. Instead of “How was your day?” try “What did you do in math class today?” Instead of “Do you like your teacher?” ask “What do you like about your teacher?” Or “What do you not like so much?” Let her take her time to answer. Try to avoid asking, in the overly bright voice of parents everywhere, “Did you have fun in school today?!” She’ll sense how important it is that the answer be yes.

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Susan Cain Communication Parenting

We know from myths and fairy tales that there are many different kinds of powers in this world. One child is given a light saber, another a wizard's education. The trick is not to amass all the different kinds of power, but to use well the kind you've been granted.

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Susan Cain Identity Temperament

Introverts may have strong social skills and enjoy parties and business meetings, but after a while wish they were home in their pajamas. They prefer to devote their social energies to close friends, colleagues, and family. They listen more than they talk, think before they speak, and often feel as if they express themselves better in writing than in conversation. They tend to dislike conflict. Many have a horror of small talk, but enjoy deep discussions.

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Susan Cain Human Nature Introverts Life Parties Shyness Social Anxiety

It's as if they have thinner boundaries separating them from other people's emotions and from the tragedies and cruelties of the world.

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Susan Cain Emotions Introversion Sensitivities

Soft power is quiet persistence.

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Susan Cain Determination Graciousness Humility

He had a courtly way of exclaiming over whatever was exclaimable in people – especially kids.

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Susan Cain Discipleship Encouragement Mentoring

Events like this don't give me the sense of oneness others seem to enjoy; it's always been private occasions that make me feel connected to the joys and sorrows of the world, often in the form of communion with writers and musicians I'll never meet in person. Proust called these moments of unity between writer and reader 'that fruitful miracle of a communication in the midst of solitude.

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Susan Cain Introversion Solitude

What's so magical about solitude? In many fields, it's only when you're alone that you can engage in deliberate practice. This is the key to exceptional achievement.

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Susan Cain Solitude

But when the group is literally capable of changing our perceptions, and when to stand alone is to activate primitive, powerful, and unconscious feelings of rejection, then the health of these institutions seems far more vulnerable than we think.

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Susan Cain Amygdala Democracy Extraversion Introversion

Purification and redemption are such recurrent themes in ritual because there is a clear and ubiquitous need for them: we all do regrettable things as a result of our own circumstances, and new rituals are frequently invented in response to new circumstances.

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Susan Cain Circumstances Purify Redemption Regret Ritual Themes

There's nothing more exciting than ideas.

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Susan Cain Exiting Things Fun Ideas Introversion Introvert

Introverts just just don't buzz as easily.

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Susan Cain Addiction Emotion Excitement Introspection

Yet today we make room for a remarkably narrow range of personality styles. We’re told that to be great is to be bold, to be happy is to be sociable.

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Susan Cain Introversion Introvert Personality Quiet

If you don't love Jesus out loud, then it must not be real love. It's not enough to forge your own spiritual connection to the Divine. It must be displayed publicly.

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Susan Cain Evangelism Extroversion Personality

you once said to would like to sit beside me while I write. Listen in that case I could not write at all. For writing means revealing one self to excess; that utmost of self-revelation and surrender, in which a human being, when involved with others, would feel he was losing himself, and from which, therefore, he will always shrink as long as he is in his right mind...That is why one can never be alone enough when one writes, why there can never be enough silence around one when one writes, why even night is not night enough.

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Susan Cain Introversion Writing Life Writing Process

If genius is one percent inspiration and ninety-nine percent perspiration, then as a culture we tend to lionize the one percent.

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Susan Cain Extroverts Genius Giftednessss Introverts Perspiration Talent

We have two ears and one mouth and we should use them proportionally.

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Susan Cain Introversion Listening Talking

Most people who have grown up introverted in this very extroverted culture of ours have had painful experiences of feeling like they are out of step with what's expected of them. Parenting can pose unique challenges for introverted parents, who fear that their own painful experiences will be repeated in their children's lives.

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Susan Cain Children Fear Culture

We need to do teacher training to educate them about what temperament means. Shyness is painful and you want to help a child with shyness - but the underlying temperament of being a careful, sensitive person is to be honoured, valued and respected.

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Susan Cain Training Child Help
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