A person with a victim complex is incapable of achieving his goal without someone’s assistance, advice and prompts
~ Sunday Adelaja
Life can be spent in an atmosphere of continuous encouragement, you will ignore the complex and it will disappear
Files of the past can be changed through shock, encouragement or pain
We underestimate ourselves, we do not believe in our strength, abilities, and talents and we have a distorted vision of ourselves
Parents are labelling, criticizing and reproaching the child on any account
Without accepting our personality, we try to meet the requirements of the society and do everything to be accepted
You cannot act in the old way, as you got used to, as you have been programmed in your childhood, you will have to change yourself or otherwise you will not survive
Thinking can change through the pronunciation of the word of God in your life , because it contains enough strength and energy to change your sub-consciousness
If you are indecisive, make decisions quickly and act in accordance with your decisions you will be able to acquire a new habit
Without accepting ourselves, we try to meet requirements of society and do everything to be accepted
A person with victim mentality cannot find himself, his life mission, and go towards his aims
People with victim mentality, consider actions such as making decisions, setting goals and achieving them to be nothing more than formidable obstacles
People with victim mentality often do not have life purpose, because they do not know how to acquire them unless someone plans their future for them
If a child is loved, he feels worthy of love in the future
If a child is roughly treated and not respected and not shown love, the child will have problems with self-esteem
For parents, it is important to respect the personality of a child
In order to change thinking into the positive way, we need to analyze what complexes we have received
When a complex is acquired, personal development is stopped and the person even being an adult, sometimes behaves in a childish and immature way
Our subconscious mind stores all our negative beliefs, complexes and behavioral patterns
It is necessary to analyze all the restricting beliefs and complexes, which we acquired in childhood, from family, school and society
As a result, your subconscious mind will do its best to keep you from a successful marriage, because you have a disagreement between your consciousness and sub consciousness
Sub-consciousness is extremely selfish, it will do anything to keep you safe and main in a comfort zone
Negative beliefs and complexes are stored in your subconscious mind and create a weakness, which will not let you succeed in life
When a child is immersed in a certain environment, his thinking is formed by roles models of behavior demonstrated by parents in the family who have had a great influence on the formation of thinking of the child
You are the characterize, values and beliefs that are inherent only inside you
You need to do research, to approach the study of the issue from all sides
It is proved that those who have plans but do not record them, lose to those who have written plans
Make a plan that concern your purpose, your calling and describes exactly what should be done every day for your purpose and life mission
Every woman needs to appreciate her natural beauty, but she also needs to analyze the topic of complexes in general
When we access ourselves wrongly, we are mistaken about our abilities
When we access ourselves wrongly, we cannot see our ability to achieve a goal
So a complex, by distorting our perception of ourselves in our mind, builds obstacles that prevent achievement of our goals
Remember! If during the day a person didn’t do anything concerning his purpose and calling, he did nothing at all
We cannot achieve or goal when we are afraid, not confident, passive and indecisive
To get rid of complexes and consequently, to finding a more conscious and harmonious life is to see and understand where these distortions occurs in our lives
The larger the complex, the more the energy it takes away from us
The more energy taken, the less energy that is left for us to implement our goals and the smaller the probability of realization of our innate potential
Many people do not understand why they cannot do well in their lives, even with a lot of training, using short- term and long term plans and most importantly having a huge potential
Dividing the goal into pieces must be brought down to the smallest measurable element, a day, to know exactly what to do every day
You need to think about the month, you need to plan the day, you need to take your elephant and divide into pieces and eat a slice a day
