A heart can only be broken or remain shattered through repeated negative interpretations of a negative experience.
~ Hafiz
Negative experiences don't create fears, doubts, anger, grudges, low self-esteem, low self-confidence, jealousy, stress or depression; one's repeated negative interpretations of them do.
A happy life has never been the outcome of dragging the negative experiences that belong in one's past into one's present and future.
To move in the forward direction is to be strong and positive enough to bury every negative experience in the past.