Where does your security lie? Is God your refuge, your hiding place, your stronghold, your shepherd, your counselor, your friend, your redeemer, your saviour, your guide? If He is, you don't need to search any further for security.
The chains that break you, are the chains that make you. And the chains that make you, are the chains you break.
Everybody is equally weak on the inside, just that some present their ruins as new castles and become kings –
Negative words have a way of permeating our system and making themselves comfortable in our sub-conscious. Once they find a place in our sub-conscious, they become a stronghold.