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“ Playing roles and acting are forms of lying. If a person acts like they really feel and it rocks the boat, they are ostracized. We promote pretense and lying as a cultural way of life. Living this way causes an inner split. It teaches us to hide and cover up our toxic shame. This sends us deeper into isolation and loneliness. ”

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The feeling of righteousness is the core mood alteration among religious addicts. Religious addiction is a massive problem in our society. It may be the most pernicious of all addictions because it’s so hard for a person to break his delusion and denial. How can anything be wrong with loving God and giving your life for good works and service to mankind?

~ John Bradshaw

John Bradshaw Religion Self Righteousness

Shame is internalized when one is abandoned. Abandonment is the precise term to describe how one loses one’s authentic self and ceases to exist psychologically.

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John Bradshaw Abuse Healing Psychology Toxic Toxic Shame Trauma

True love heals and affects spiritual growth. If we do not grow because of someone else’s love, it’s generally because it is a counterfeit form of love.

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John Bradshaw Love Personal Growth

Hell, in my opinion, is never finding your true self and never living your own life or knowing who you are.

~ John Bradshaw

John Bradshaw Consciousness Hell