“ It was not about keeping a man, it was a lesson on how not to become an ugly woman. ”
When the dead departed, they took away any falsehoods that they might have allowed us to believe while alive; we who are left behind have to embark on a different life, since the dead are no longer here to help us deceive ourselves.
~ Yiyun Li
People don't vanish from one's life they come back in disguise.
I have spent much of my life turning away from the scripts given to me, in China and in America; my refusal to be defined by the will of others is my one and only political statement.
There is a difference between being remembered and being caught by the mesh of one's mind.
