Kemi Sogunle Quotes

If you don't love yourself, you won't be happy with yourself. If you can't love yourself, you can't love anyone else. You can't give the love you do not have. You can't make anyone love you without loving yourself first.

~ Kemi Sogunle

The fog may seem thick but the sun will surely pierce through and brighten up the sky. Allow yourself to continue to rest on the wings of God's love and watch yourself learn to soar high.

~ Kemi Sogunle

Love is better than hate.Faith is greater than fear.Having positive vibes is better than holding on to negative ones. Learn to stay positive. Choose faith over fear and love over hate. Change your perspective. Change your life and change your world.

~ Kemi Sogunle

If you keep focusing on what people have to say or will say about you, you will lose focus of what God has called you to do. Never let distractions bother you...if you do, you will only be giving your energy to an unworthy cause.

~ Kemi Sogunle

When you hoard knowledge, you deprive yourself of blessings and growth.

~ Kemi Sogunle

If you spend time judging and criticizing people, you will not have time to heal from your pain or brokenness. You cannot love yourself when you judge or criticize others who are created in God's image and after His Likeness...in which you are also created. Love cannot operate from a space of pain. Love and hurt cannot reside in the same space.

~ Kemi Sogunle

Your soul finds ego in fear. Your mind finds ache in pain but your heart finds love when free.

~ Kemi Sogunle

Playing is a game. Love is an act. Don't pretend to love someone when all you plan to do is play. Love is not a game. It is a lifetime commitment.

~ Kemi Sogunle

Everyday, God shows us what love and compassion is about, through everything He created. We must learn to see beyond our differences and look deeper into our hearts. Everything in life will shape you, if you allow yourself embrace the truth...no matter how much it hurts. The truth is associated with love and love is all we need.

~ Kemi Sogunle

The most important lessons are learned during the process. Pay attention to the process.

~ Kemi Sogunle

Every choice starts with a decision. Every decision starts with a thought. Every thought starts with a pre-conceived idea. It is up to you to decide what you do with each but always remember that the choice you make will result in the consequence you face.

~ Kemi Sogunle

Life’s best lessons are learned during the most painful experiences.

~ Kemi Sogunle

Staying in an unhealthy relationship that robs you of peace of mind, is not being loyal. It is choosing to hurt yourself mentally, emotionally and sometimes, physically.

~ Kemi Sogunle

Learn how to stay out of negativity. It will improve your health. Learn how to focus on meeting your needs. It will increase your wealth. Learn how to develop strength during difficult days. You will learn how to overcome. Learn how to confess your sins and do away with them. It will help you understand God's grace. Learn how to be patient. It will lead you to accomplish your goals and results. Learn how to give. It will open doors to your blessings. Learn how to become fearless. It will bring you peace. Learn how to trust God above all else and your life will never be the same.

~ Kemi Sogunle

Learn the truth...never assume.Understand the plight...never judge.Put yourself in someone's shoes...never hurt.Think before you act, reason before you react.

~ Kemi Sogunle

Life is a journey filled with experiences but without the experiences, there will be no life.

~ Kemi Sogunle

Trials make you strong.Failure makes you humble.Challenges make you strive.Life keeps you going and growing

~ Kemi Sogunle

No one can hurt you except you give them the power to do so and choose to accept it.

~ Kemi Sogunle

For every choice you make, there is a consequence to face. Choose wisely!

~ Kemi Sogunle

You sometimes have to let people off the bus during your journey in life...not because you don't love them but because they are a distraction towards your growth!

~ Kemi Sogunle

Don't let your focus be so much on how many times you go on a date but how you can build into one another, share and carry each other's vision, complement each other, develop a deeper level of friendship; grow spiritually together and make the little things meaningful. It's beyond the 100% but more about how committed and dedicated you are daily. Love can only truly exist, when you become selfless and focus less on what is in it for you.

~ Kemi Sogunle

Love can only be true and free when you are fully healed from painful past and any form of brokenness.

~ Kemi Sogunle

Everyone grows but not everyone becomes mature.

~ Kemi Sogunle

Look in the mirror and be sure you're living out the person you see and not a shadow.

~ Kemi Sogunle

Kindness carries no price tag neither does it require making a purchase. A random act of kindness can change someone's life...choose to be kind always.

~ Kemi Sogunle

Change the way you treat your partner. Learn to treat your partner as you would yourself. Change the way you pray for your partner. Learn to pray unselfishly. Change the way you talk to your partner. Learn to speak life to him/her daily. Change the way you show love to your partner. Learn to do something different regularly. The more you change, the more your relationship changes for the better not to make you become bitter.

~ Kemi Sogunle

Take a look at the plants. They come together and thrive peacefully in the garden or park. They lean on each other without trying to outdo one another. They serve as a sign that we can see beyond our differences and embrace each other in love while allowing our uniqueness to add color to our world. If plants can live in harmony and show their beauty to the world, we as humans can do much more.

~ Kemi Sogunle

We sometimes have to experience pain for us to have a story to tell.

~ Kemi Sogunle

Bullies do not just wake up and decide to be one. They are people who have or are experiencing emotional or verbal abuse. All you can do is not retaliate but show them love. Doing so, allows them see what they are missing and need. You can let them see the other side of life when you show love not hurt. After all, we are all products of love and we must choose to demonstrate that above all else.

~ Kemi Sogunle

The most painful moments and memories eventually lead to the greatest strengths and growth in life.

~ Kemi Sogunle

We sometimes have to experience pain for us to have a story to tell. The power to heal from the pain equips us with the strength to rise up again and move beyond it all. We not only become stronger but wise enough to recognize and handle pain in the future. We however, have to learn to let the brick walls fall down so that we can experience true love once more. We must learn from pain and let it lead us to the most beautiful parts of our journey in life. Only then can our stories become fully complete.

~ Kemi Sogunle

Ego speaks from a place of pride.Judgement comes from a place of pain.Courage speaks from a place of humility.Correction comes from a place of love.Where are you operating from?

~ Kemi Sogunle

Without forgiveness and love, you will live with resentment, bitterness, malice and strife which result in more pain. You can never love without forgiving. Forgiveness deepens your ability to love and frees you from pain.

~ Kemi Sogunle

Pain and love cannot be in the same space. You can never love anyone in pain. You cannot truly love yourself in pain. The more pain you carry in your heart, the harder it becomes to love anyone including yourself.

~ Kemi Sogunle

No one can understand your pain until they experience it. Stop trying to explain.

~ Kemi Sogunle

If your relationship is draining your energy, making you lose yourself and taking your attention away from God, then you are not in a relationship but a cult. You are busy creating an idol (mini-God) for yourself.

~ Kemi Sogunle

Learn to set the pace for your relationship as a couple...not how the world thinks but how God designed it to be.

~ Kemi Sogunle

Love is a choice. You can choose to love or hurt but the consequences you suffer will always be based on the choice you make. No one can force you to choose from the two but the state of your heart, soul and mind determines the one you lean towards. Remember, with hurt you can destroy but with love you can CONQUER!

~ Kemi Sogunle

Seeds strive to become plants by forcing their way through the soil. We can learn from this and push through the struggles we face in life. If they can survive, we can do much more. Keep pushing and pressing forward. Your best is yet to come!

~ Kemi Sogunle

Without making mistakes, there won't be lessons learned. Without getting hurt, there won't be knowledge gained. The only way we grow is by learning from the past. Always be willing to learn and grow daily. It's how we come to know who we are and what we are made of.

~ Kemi Sogunle