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I am responsible for my own existence and happiness.

~ Nathaniel Branden

Nathaniel Branden Happiness Life Responsibility

All positive interactions with other human beings involve, to some degree, the experience of visibility-- that is, the experience of being seen and understood.

~ Nathaniel Branden

Nathaniel Branden Friendship Healthy Psychology Relationships Self Esteem Self Knowledge

Fear and pain should be treated as signals not to close our eyes but to open them wider.

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Nathaniel Branden Awareness Consciousness Fear Pain

Self-discipline is the ability to organize your behavior over time in the service of specific goals.

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Nathaniel Branden Discipline Health Life Mental Health Productive Psychology Purpose Self Esteem

The challenge for people today--and it is not and easy one--is to maintain high personal standards even while feeling that one is living in a moral sewer.

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Nathaniel Branden Evil Freedom Immorality Morality Psychology Self Esteem Self Knowledge Society Virtue

A mind that trusts itself is light on its feet.

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Nathaniel Branden Confidence Intelligence Mind Quick Witted Self Trust

We are parts of one universe, true enough. We stand within an almost infinite network of relationships. Yet each of us is a single point of consciousness, a unique event, a private, unrepeatable world. This is the essence of our aloneness.

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Nathaniel Branden Humanity Individual Individuality Psychology Self Esteem

Never marry a person who is not a friend of your excitement.

~ Nathaniel Branden

Nathaniel Branden Excitement Love Marriage Marriage Advice Passion

It is naive to think that self-assertiveness is easy. To live self-assertively--which means to live authentically--is an act of high courage. That is why so many people spend the better part of their lives in hiding--from others and also from themselves.

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Nathaniel Branden Authenticity Honesty Psychology Self Esteem

Integrity is congruence between what you know, what you profess, and what you do.

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Nathaniel Branden Integrity Psychology Self Esteem Self Knowledge

Self-esteem is not a luxury, it is a profound spiritual need.

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Nathaniel Branden Healthy Mental Health Psychology Self Esteem Self Knowledge

It is painful to face the self we know we have never had the integrity to honor and assert.

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Nathaniel Branden Healing Psychology Self Esteem Therapy

Genuine self esteem – please understand this – genuine self esteem is not competitive or comparative. Genuine self esteem isn’t expressed by self-glorification at the expense of others, or by trying to make yourself superior to everyone else, or diminishing others in order to elevate yourself. Arrogance, boastfulness, the overestimation of your abilities, reflect low self esteem, even though we’re often encouraged to believe the opposite. In human beings, joy in the simple fact of existence is a core meaning of healthy self esteem. Thus understood, how can you possibly have too much of it?

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Nathaniel Branden Competition Mental Health Psychology Self Esteem Self Knowledge Unhealthy

One of the hardest expressions of self-assertiveness is challenging your limiting beliefs.

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Nathaniel Branden Psychology Self Esteem

It is a mistake to look at someone who is self assertive and say, It's easy for her, she has good self-esteem. One of the ways you build self-esteem is by being self-assertive when it is not easy to do so. There are always times when self-assertiveness requires courage, no matter how high your self-esteem.

~ Nathaniel Branden

Nathaniel Branden Assertiveness Psychology Self Esteem Self Knowledge

The opposite of self-assertiveness is self-abnegation--abandoning or submerging your personal values, judgment, and interests. Some people tell themselves this is a virtue. It is a virtue that corrodes self-esteem.

~ Nathaniel Branden

Nathaniel Branden Assertiveness Psychology Self Esteem

Out of fear, out of the desire for approval, out of misguided notions of duty, people surrender themselves--their convictions and their aspirations--every day. There is nothing noble about it. It takes far more courage to fight for your values than to relinquish them.

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Nathaniel Branden Cowardice Psychology Self Esteem

If you choose not to live self-responsibly, you count on others to make up your default. No one abjures self-responsibility on a desert island.

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Nathaniel Branden Psychology Responsibility Self Esteem

A bully hides his fears with fake bravado. That is the opposite of self-assertiveness.

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Nathaniel Branden Bullying Psychology Self Esteem

Suffering is just about the easiest of all human activities; being happy is just about the hardest. And happiness requires, not surrender to guilt, but emancipation from guilt.

~ Nathaniel Branden

Nathaniel Branden Freedom Happiness Healing Liberty Mental Health Philosophy Psychology Rational Self Esteem Self Knowledge

It is not only negative feelings that become blocked. The repression extends to more and more of his emotional capacity.When one is given an anesthetic in preparation for surgery, it is not merely the capacity to experience pain that is suspended; the capacity to experience pleasure goes also - because what is blocked is the capacity to experience *feeling*. The same principle applies to the repression of emotions.Chapter 1: Discovering the Unknown Self, pg. 9, Bantam Edition, 1984

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Nathaniel Branden Emotion Psychology Repression

One of the great self-deceptions--and one of the great foolishnesses--is to tell yourself, Only I will know. Only you will know that you are a liar; only you will know you deal unethically with people who trust you; only you will know you have no intention of honoring your promise. Whose knowledge or judgment do you imagine is more important? It is precisely your own ego from which there is no escape.

~ Nathaniel Branden

Nathaniel Branden Psychology Responsibility Self Esteem Self Knowledge Self Respect

Most people do not erode their self-esteem over big issues but over small ones, little acts of betrayal and hypocrisy forgotten (repressed) very quickly. But the computer in your subconscious mind forgets nothing. It records your spiritual profit and loss. The balance sheet reflects your present level of self-esteem--and sends you the information via your emotions.

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Nathaniel Branden Analysis Psychology Self Esteem Self Knowledge Subconscious Unconscious

The idea of original sin--of guilt with no possibility of innocence, no freedom of choice, no alternatives--inherently militates against self-esteem. The very notion of guilt without volition or responsibility is an assault on reason as well as on morality. Sin is not original, it is originated--like virtue.

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Nathaniel Branden Free Will Irrationality Psychology Religion Self Esteem Self Knowledge Superstition

Anyone who engages in the practice of psychotherapy confronts every day the devastation wrought by the teachings of religion.

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Nathaniel Branden Psychology Rationality Self Esteem Self Knowledge

In any culture, subculture, or family in which belief is valued above thought, and self-surrender is valued above self-expression, and conformity is valued above integrity, those who preserve their self-esteem are likely to be heroic exceptions.

~ Nathaniel Branden

Nathaniel Branden Psychology Rationality Religion Self Esteem Self Knowledge

Some people stand and move as if they have no right to the space they occupy. They wonder why others often fail to treat them with respect--not realizing that they have signalled others that it is not necessary to treat them with respect.

~ Nathaniel Branden

Nathaniel Branden Abuse Recovery People Pleaser Psychology Self Esteem Victimhood

It is humiliating to realize that when you drive yourself underground, when you fake who you are, often you do so for people you do not even like or respect.

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Nathaniel Branden Hide Integrity Mask Psychology Self Esteem

Chances are, when you were young, you were told, in effect, Listen, kid, here is the news: life is not about you. Life is not about what you want. What you want is not important. Life is about doing what others expect of you. If you accepted this idea, later on you wondered what had happened to your fire. Where had your enthusiasm for living gone?

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Nathaniel Branden Psychology Self Esteem

We must become what we wish to teach.

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Nathaniel Branden Potential Self Development Self Improvement Teaching

Everyone who has any familiarity with psychology knows about the danger of disowning the murderer within. Far fewer people understand the tragedy of disowning the hero within.

~ Nathaniel Branden

Nathaniel Branden Inner Beauty Inner Strength Self Improvement Self Realization

The greater a child’s terror, and the earlier it is experienced, the harder it becomes to develop a strong and healthy sense of self.

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Nathaniel Branden Abuse Child Abuse Childhood Trauma Psychology Self Esteem Self Knowledge Trauma

Self-esteem is the reputation we acquire with ourselves.

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Nathaniel Branden Self Acceptance Self Esteem

In the inner courtroom of my mind, mine is the only judgment that counts.

~ Nathaniel Branden

Nathaniel Branden Independence Inner Critic Self Acceptance Self Criticism Self Esteem

Sometimes the path to higher self-esteem is lonely and frightening. We cannot fully know in advance how much more satisfying our lives will be. But the more we are willing to experience and accept the many aspects of who we are, the richer our inner worlds, the greater our resources, the more appropriate we feel to the challenges and opportunities of life. Also, it is more likely that we will find - or create - a style of existence that will meet our individual needs.

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Nathaniel Branden Self Esteem

Our liabilities pose the problem of inadequacy; our our assets, the challenge of responsibility. Our strengths or virtues can make us feel alone, alienated, cut off from the common herd, a target for envy and hostility, and our desire to belong can overcome any desire to actualise our highest potential.

~ Nathaniel Branden

Nathaniel Branden Self Esteem

The higher our self-esteem, the more likely we are to be creative in our work, which means the more successful we are likely to be. The higher our self-esteem, the more ambitious we tend to be, not necessarily in a career or financial sense, but in terms of what we hope to experience in life - emotionally, creatively and spiritually.

~ Nathaniel Branden

Nathaniel Branden Self Esteem

Of all the judgements we pass, none is as important as the one we pass on ourselves.

~ Nathaniel Branden

Nathaniel Branden Self Esteem

It sounded, I told him, as if he had never learned to balance projecting goals into the future with appreciating and living in the present....To the extent that our goal is to prove ourselves or ward off the fear of failure, this balance is difficult to achieve. We are too driven. Not joy but anxiety is our motor.But if our aim is self-expression rather than self-justification, the balance tends to come more naturally. We will still need to think about its daily implementation, but the anxiety of wounded self-esteem will not make the task nearly impossible.

~ Nathaniel Branden

Nathaniel Branden Anxiety Balance Self Esteem

To persevere with the will to understand in the face of obstacles is the heroism of consciousness.

~ Nathaniel Branden

Nathaniel Branden Consciousness Perseverance Understanding
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