Lies don't end relationships the truth does.

~ Shannon L. Alder

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Quitters always believe the lies they tell themselves because delusion is easier to live with than the reality that they settled for an easier path.

~ Shannon L. Alder

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Everyone loses their class when they travel through hell, but only a few will regain it if they remain humble and accept the part they played in their own misery.

~ Shannon L. Alder

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so often victims end up unnecessarily prolonging their abuse because they buy into the notion that their abuser must be coming from a wounded place and that only patient love and tolerance (and lots of misguided therapy) will help them heal.

~ George K. Simon

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invalidation is crazy-making, and it is also at the root of gaslighting, where victims' feelings are purposely denied or manipulated in order to make them question their sanity.

~ Samantha Rodman

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You love someone. You don’t leave her to drown. And you don’t tell her she’s crazier than she already knows that she is!

~ Caitlín R. Kiernan

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Narcissists are consumed with maintaining a shallow false self to others. They're emotionally crippled souls that are addicted to attention. Because of this they use a multitude of games, in order to receive adoration. Sadly, they are the most ungodly of God's creations because they don't show remorse for their actions, take steps to make amends or have empathy for others. They are morally bankrupt.

~ Shannon L. Alder

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