When you blame others, what you are really saying is what is inside of you can’t be fixed, so you have no control of your own happiness. Therefore, you have made the conscience choice to give focus and fuel to a bad situation that will take you nowhere and give you nothing, but ignorance and pain.

~ Shannon L. Alder

Shannon L. Alder Adult Blame Blaming Choices Denial Empowering Your Life Empowerment Family Friends Hurting Others In Control Lack Of Control Life Maturity Not Taking Ownership Out Of Control Ownership Owning Your Actions Owning Your Issues Owning Your Mistakes Parents Relationships 101 Responsibility Ruts Siblings Stayingpositiveu Com Taking Control Teenagers

Don’t forget:Ruts aren’t that much different . . .from graves.

~ John-Talmage Mathis

John-Talmage Mathis Depression Ruts Unemployed

You came up this gut-wrenching road yesterday by yourself? Cassie exclaimed. You deserve a good cuffing just for driving this goat path on your own.It's not so bad once you get used to dodging the ruts.You've got some nerve calling these canyons ruts.Cassandra Hudson, where is your sense of adventure?I dropped it off going over that last rut-crossing when only two wheels were on the ground.Those ones are a bit exhilarating, aren't they? Alexandra shot Cassie a quick look and wink. Keep your eyes on the road!What road?Exactly!

~ H.h. Laura

H.h. Laura Canyons Exhilarating Goat Humorous Larkspur Road Ruts

Sometimes chaos is the very thing that deliberately shakes up our neatly ordered world’s in order to get us out of the neatly ordered ruts that have kept us stuck.

~ Craig D. Lounsbrough

Craig D. Lounsbrough Bored Boredom Chaos Chaotic Dislocate Limbo Move Order Ordered Predictability Redirect Relocate Routine Ruts Shake Stuck