Curtis Sittenfeld Quotes

There was a way in which my grandmother's true self was not these guests' business, no one's true self was the business of more than a very small number of family members or close friends.

~ Curtis Sittenfeld

I wanted to hold happiness in reserve, like a bottle of champagne. I postponed it because I was afraid, because I overvalued it, and then I didn't want to use it up, because what do you wish for then?

~ Curtis Sittenfeld

There's a belief that to take care of someone else, or to let someone else take care of you - that both are inherently unfeminist. i don't agree. There's no shame in devoting yourself to another person, as long as he devotes himself to you in return

~ Curtis Sittenfeld

I heard Gillian say, with a laugh, “At this point, does anyone expect the liberals not to be total hypocrites?” She was oblivious to the possibility that perhaps not everyone present shared her views, and I thought, You’re sixteen. How can you already be a Republican?

~ Curtis Sittenfeld

Perhaps this is how you know you're doing the thing you're intended to: No matter how slow or how slight your progress, you never feel that it's a waste of time.

~ Curtis Sittenfeld

All things being equal, why not be married to a rich man? (Somewhere, Hannah thinks, there must be a needlepoint pillow asking this very question in a cleverer way.)

~ Curtis Sittenfeld

You never know the nature of another couple's marriage, do you?

~ Curtis Sittenfeld

She has always been a bystander in family destruction, never realizing she herself possessed the capacity to inflict it.

~ Curtis Sittenfeld

Mama!' Rosie tugged on my shirt. 'This broccoli is tasty and wonderful'.

~ Curtis Sittenfeld

..and I thought how liking a boy was just the same as believing you wanted to know a secret - everything was better when you were denied and could feel tormented by curiousity or loneliness. But the moment of something happening was treacherous. It was just so tiring to have to worry about whether your face was peeling, or to have to laugh at stories that weren’t funny.

~ Curtis Sittenfeld

We have to make mistakes, it's how we learn compassion for others.

~ Curtis Sittenfeld

And the reason I'm telling you all this is that I want you to know no one in my life has ever made me feel worse about myself than you.

~ Curtis Sittenfeld

Children are nothing but a problem people create and then congratulate themselves on solving.

~ Curtis Sittenfeld

But I was living my life sideway. I did not act on what I wanted, I did not say the things I thought, and being so stifled and clamped all the time left me exhausted; no matter what I was doing, I was always imagining something else.

~ Curtis Sittenfeld

you know what her punishment is for tormenting you way back when? he said.I looked at him.He said, her punishment is being her

~ Curtis Sittenfeld

Since I was a small girl, I have lived inside this cottage, shelted by its roof and walls. I have known of people suffering—I have not been blind to them in the way that privilege allows, the way my own husband and now my daughter are blind. It is a statement of fact and not a judgement to say Charlie and Ella’s minds aren’t oriented in that direction; in a way, it absolves them, whereas the unlucky have knocked on the door of my consciousness, they have emerged from the forest and knocked many times over the course of my life, and I have only occasionally allowed them entry. I’ve done more than nothing and much less than I could have. I have laid inside, beneath a quilt on a comfortable couch, in a kind of reverie, and when I heard the unlucky outside my cottage, sometimes I passed them coins or scraps of food, and sometimes I ignored them altogether; if I ignored them, they had no choice but to walk back into the woods, and when they grew weak or got lost or were circled by wolves, I pretended I couldn’t hear them calling my name.

~ Curtis Sittenfeld

How quickly we damn ourselves when we start to talk, how small and inglorious we always sound.

~ Curtis Sittenfeld

I won’t claim I’ve never in my life done anything I’m ashamed of, but I haven’t done anything for a good while. If not everyone would agree with the decisions I’ve made, that’s fine. What other people think has never made a situation right or wrong.

~ Curtis Sittenfeld

Foolish names and foolish faces often appear in public places.

~ Curtis Sittenfeld