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People think a soul mate is your perfect fit, and that's what everyone wants. But a true soul mate is a mirror, the person who shows you everything that is holding you back, the person who brings you to your own attention so you can change your life. A true soul mate is probably the most important person you'll ever meet, because they tear down your walls and smack you awake. But to live with a soul mate forever? Nah. Too painful. Soul mates, they come into your life just to reveal another layer of yourself to you, and then leave. A soul mates purpose is to shake you up, tear apart your ego a little bit, show you your obstacles and addictions, break your heart open so new light can get in, make you so desperate and out of control that you have to transform your life, then introduce you to your spiritual master...

~ Elizabeth Gilbert

Elizabeth Gilbert Love

This is a good sign, having a broken heart. It means we have tried for something.

~ Elizabeth Gilbert

Elizabeth Gilbert Heartache Love

I have a history of making decisions very quickly about men. I have always fallen in love fast and without measuring risks. I have a tendency not only to see the best in everyone, but to assume that everyone is emotionally capable of reaching his highest potential. I have fallen in love more times than I care to count with the highest potential of a man, rather than with the man himself, and I have hung on to the relationship for a long time (sometimes far too long) waiting for the man to ascend to his own greatness. Many times in romance I have been a victim of my own optimism.

~ Elizabeth Gilbert

Elizabeth Gilbert Disappointment Love Romance

To be fully seen by somebody, then, and be loved anyhow - this is a human offering that can border on miraculous.

~ Elizabeth Gilbert

Elizabeth Gilbert Acceptance Being Loved Love Marriage Relationships Truth

To lose balance sometimes for love is part of living a balancedlife.

~ Elizabeth Gilbert

Elizabeth Gilbert Love

Someday you're gonna look back on this moment of your life as such a sweet time of grieving. You'll see that you were in mourning and your heart was broken, but your life was changing...

~ Elizabeth Gilbert

Elizabeth Gilbert Heartbreak Love Mourning

In desperate love, we always invent the characters of our partners, demanding they be what we need of them, and then feeling devastated when they refuse to perform the role we created in the first place.

~ Elizabeth Gilbert

Elizabeth Gilbert Love

People always fall in love with the most perfect aspects of each other’s personalities. Who wouldn’t? Anybody can love the most wonderful parts of another person. But that’s not the clever trick. The really clever trick is this: Can you accept the flaws? Can you look at your partner’s faults honestly and say, ‘I can work around that. I can make something out of it.’? Because the good stuff is always going to be there, and it’s always going to pretty and sparkly, but the crap underneath can ruin you.

~ Elizabeth Gilbert

Elizabeth Gilbert Dating Love Marriage

The only thing more unthinkable than leaving was staying the only thing more impossible than stayin the only thing more impossible than staying was leaving.g was leaving.

~ Elizabeth Gilbert

Elizabeth Gilbert Eat Elizabeth Gilbert Love Pray

One thing I do know about intimacy is that there are certain natural laws which govern the sexual experience of two people, and that these laws cannot be budged any more than gravity can be negotiated with. To feel physically comfortable with someone else's body is not a decision you can make. It has very little to do with how two people think or act or talk or even look. The mysterious magnet is either there, buried somewhere deep behind the sternum, or it is not. When it isn't there (as I have learned in the past, with heartbreaking clarity) you can no more force it to exist than a surgeon can force a patient's body to accept a kidney from the wrong donor. My friend Annie says it all comes down to one simple question: Do you want your belly pressed against this person's belly forever --or not?

~ Elizabeth Gilbert

Elizabeth Gilbert Love

I met an old lady once, almost a hundred years old, and she told me, 'There are only two questions that human beings have ever fought over, all through history. How much do you love me? And Who's in charge?

~ Elizabeth Gilbert

Elizabeth Gilbert Eternal Questions Love Power

The love that moves the sun and the other stars.

~ Elizabeth Gilbert

Elizabeth Gilbert Inspirational Love

Desiring another person is perhaps the most risky endeavor of all. As soon as you want somebody—really want him—it is as though you have taken a surgical needle and sutured your happiness to the skin of that person, so that any separation will now cause a lacerating injury.

~ Elizabeth Gilbert

Elizabeth Gilbert Desire Longing Love

But is it such a bad thing to live like this for just a little while? Just for a few months of one's life, is it so awful to travel through time with no greater ambition than to find the next lovely meal? Or to learn how to speak a language for no higher purpose than that it pleases your ear to hear it? Or to nap in a garden, in a patch of sunlight, in the middle of the day, right next to your favourite fountain? And then to do it again the next day?

~ Elizabeth Gilbert

Elizabeth Gilbert Eat From Love Pray

Zen masters say you cannot see your reflection in running water, only in still water.

~ Elizabeth Gilbert

Elizabeth Gilbert Eat Elizabeth Gilbert Love Pray

Your problem is you don't understand what that word means. People think a soul mate is your perfect fit, and that's what everyone wants. But a true soul mate is a mirror, the person who shows you everything that's holding you back, the person who brings you to your attention so you can change your life. A true soul mate is probably the most important person you'll ever meet, because they tear down your walls and smack you awake. But to live with a soul mate forever? Nah. Too painful. Soul mates, they come into your life just to reveal another layer of yourself to you, and then they leave.

~ Elizabeth Gilbert

Elizabeth Gilbert Love Soul Mates

Infatuation is not quite the same thing as love it's more like love's shady second cousin who's always borrowing money and can't hold down a job.

~ Elizabeth Gilbert

Elizabeth Gilbert Infatuation Love

My love affair with (him) had a wonderful element of romance to it, which I will always cherish. But it was not an infatuation, and here’s how I can tell: because I did not demand that he become my Great Emancipator or my Source of All Life, nor did I immediately vanish into that man’s chest cavity like a twisted, unrecognizable, parasitical homonculus. During our long period of courtship, I remained intact within my own personality, and I allowed myself to meet (him) for who he was.

~ Elizabeth Gilbert

Elizabeth Gilbert Crush Infatuation Love

Your emotions are the slaves to your thoughts, and you are the slave to your emotions.

~ Elizabeth Gilbert

Elizabeth Gilbert Emotions Life Spiritual

The Bhagavad Gita--that ancient Indian Yogic text--says that it is better to live your own destiny imperfectly than to live an imitation of somebody else's life with perfection.

~ Elizabeth Gilbert

Elizabeth Gilbert Life

When you're lost in those woods, it sometimes takes you a while to realize that you are lost. For the longest time, you can convince yourself that you've just wandered off the path, that you'll find your way back to the trailhead any moment now. Then night falls again and again, and you still have no idea where you are, and it's time to admit that you have bewildered yourself so far off the path that you don't even know from which direction the sun rises anymore.

~ Elizabeth Gilbert

Elizabeth Gilbert Depression Life

It all goes away. Eventually, everything goes away.

~ Elizabeth Gilbert

Elizabeth Gilbert Impermanence Life Loss

You were given life; it is your duty (and also your entitlement as a human being) to find something beautiful within life, no matter how slight.

~ Elizabeth Gilbert

Elizabeth Gilbert Beauty Enjoy Life Life

Sometimes life is too hard to be alone, and sometimes life is too good to be alone.

~ Elizabeth Gilbert

Elizabeth Gilbert Alone Life

Instructions for freedom:1. Life's metaphors are God's instructions.2. You have just climbed up and above the roof, there is nothing between you and the Infinite; now, let go.3. The day is ending, it's time for something that was beautiful to turn into something else that is beautiful. Now, let go.4. Your wish for resolution was a prayer. You are being here is God's response, let go and watch the stars came out, in the inside and in the outside.5. With all your heart ask for Grace and let go. 6. With all your heart forgive him, forgive yourself and let him go.7. Let your intention be freedom from useless suffering then, let go.8. Watch the heat of day pass into the cold night, let go.9. When the Karma of a relationship is done, only Love remains. It's safe, let go.10. When the past has past from you at last, let go.. then, climb down and begin the rest of your life with great joy.

~ Elizabeth Gilbert

Elizabeth Gilbert Freedom Let Go Life

Parla come magni,' It means, 'Speak the way you eat,' or in my personal translation: 'Say it like you eat it.' It's a reminder - when you're making a big deal out of explaining something, when you're searching for the right words - to keep your language as simple and direct as Roman rood. Don't make a big production out of it. Just lay it on the table.

~ Elizabeth Gilbert

Elizabeth Gilbert Food Lessons Life

The great Sufi poet and philosopher Rumi once advised his students to write down the three things they most wanted in life. If any item on the list clashes with any other item, Rumi warned, you are destined for unhappiness. Better to live a life of single-pointed focus, he taught. But what about the benefits of living harmoniously among extremes? What if you could somehow create an expansive enough life that you could synchronize seemingly incongruous opposites into a worldview that excludes nothing?

~ Elizabeth Gilbert

Elizabeth Gilbert Balance Life Life Lessons

I look at the Augusteum,and I think that perhaps my life has not actually been so chaotic, after all. It is merely this world that is chaotic, bringing changes to us all that nobody could have anticipated. The Augusteum warns me to not to get attached to any obsolete ideas about who I am, what I represent, whom I belong to, or what function I may once have intended to serve. Yesterday I might have been a glorious monument to somebody, true enough--but tomorrow I could be a fireworks depository. Even in the Eternal City, says the silent Augusteum, one must always be prepared for riotous and endless waves of transformation.

~ Elizabeth Gilbert

Elizabeth Gilbert Change Eat Pray Love Elizabeth Gilbert Life

I was suffering the easily foreseeable consequences. Addiction is the hallmark of every infatuation-based love story. It all begins when the object of your adoration bestows upon you a heady, hallucinogenic dose of something you never dared to admit you wanted-an emotional speedball, perhaps, of thunderous love and roiling excitement. Soon you start craving that intense attention, with a hungry obsession of any junkie. When the drug is witheld, you promptly turn sick, crazy, and depleted (not to mention resentful of the dealer who encouraged this addiction in the first place but now refuses to pony up the good stuff anymore-- despite the fact that you know he has it hidden somewhere, goddamn it, because he used to give it to you for free). Next stage finds you skinny and shaking in a corner, certain only that you would sell your soul or rob your neighbors just to have 'that thing' even one more time. Meanwhile, the object of your adoration has now become repulsed by you. He looks at you like you're someone he's never met before, much less someone he once loved with high passion. The irony is,you can hardly blame him. I mean, check yourself out. You're a pathetic mess,unrecognizable even to your own eyes. So that's it. You have now reached infatuation's final destination-- the complete and merciless devaluation of self. - pg 20-21

~ Elizabeth Gilbert

Elizabeth Gilbert Heartache Inspirational Relationships

You are, after all, what you think. Your emotions are the slaves to your thoughts, and you are the slave to your emotions.

~ Elizabeth Gilbert

Elizabeth Gilbert Inspirational Thoughtful

Ruin is a gift. Ruin is the road to transformation.

~ Elizabeth Gilbert

Elizabeth Gilbert Inspirational

One must always be prepared for riotous and endless waves of transformation.

~ Elizabeth Gilbert

Elizabeth Gilbert Inspirational Motivational

We're miserable because we think that we are mere individuals, alone with our fears and flaws and resentment and mortality.

~ Elizabeth Gilbert

Elizabeth Gilbert Inspirational Self Esteem

The day is ending. It's time for something that was beautiful to turn into something else that is beautiful. Now, Let go.

~ Elizabeth Gilbert

Elizabeth Gilbert Growth Inspirational

There's no trouble in this world so serious that it can't be cured with a hot bath, a glass of whiskey, and the Book of Common Prayer.

~ Elizabeth Gilbert

Elizabeth Gilbert Humor

The gods are fond of the cryptic and dislike the evident.

~ Elizabeth Gilbert

Elizabeth Gilbert Philosophy Spirituality Upanishads

All I could say was, I don't know what to do. I remember her taking me by the shoulders and looking me in the eye with a calm smile and saying simply, Tell the truth, tell the truth, tell the truth.

~ Elizabeth Gilbert

Elizabeth Gilbert Truth

Man is a demon, man is a god. Both true.

~ Elizabeth Gilbert

Elizabeth Gilbert God Man Truth

I was a veritable Johnny Appleseed of grand expectations, and all I reaped for my trouble was a harvest of bitter fruit.

~ Elizabeth Gilbert

Elizabeth Gilbert Disappointment Marriage Truth

Looking for Truth is not some kind of spazzy free-for-all, not even during this, the great age of the spazzy free-for-all.

~ Elizabeth Gilbert

Elizabeth Gilbert Truth
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