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Love is a possible strength in an actual weakness.

~ Thomas Hardy

Thomas Hardy Love

At first I did not love you, Jude; that I own. When I first knew you I merely wanted you to love me. I did not exactly flirt with you; but that inborn craving which undermines some women's morals almost more than unbridled passion--the craving to attract and captivate, regardless of the injury it may do the man--was in me; and when I found I had caught you, I was frightened. And then--I don't know how it was-- I couldn't bear to let you go--possibly to Arabella again--and so I got to love you, Jude. But you see, however fondly it ended, it began in the selfish and cruel wish to make your heart ache for me without letting mine ache for you.

~ Thomas Hardy

Thomas Hardy Craving Cruel Deception Flirting Heartbreaker Heartbroken Love Lying Selfish Sue Bridehead

I know women are taught by other women that they must never admit the full truth to a man. But the highest form of affection is based on full sincerity on both sides. Not being men, these women don't know that in looking back on those he has had tender relations with, a man's heart returns closest to her who was the soul of truth in her conduct. The better class of man, even if caught by airy affectations of dodging and parrying, is not retained by them. A Nemesis attends the woman who plays the game of elusiveness too often, in the utter contempt for her that, sooner or later, her old admirers feel; under which they allow her to go unlamented to her grave.

~ Thomas Hardy

Thomas Hardy Love Trust

Sometimes a woman's love of being loved gets the better of her conscience, and though she is agonized at the thought of treating a man cruelly, she encourages him to love her while she doesn't love him at all. Then, when she sees him suffering, her remorse sets in, and she does what she can to repair the wrong.

~ Thomas Hardy

Thomas Hardy Conscience Cruelty Love Loved Sexes Unrequited Woman

Happiness was but the occasional episode in a general drama of pain.

~ Thomas Hardy

Thomas Hardy Happiness Life Suffering

So do flux and reflux--the rhythm of change--alternate and persist in everything under the sky.

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Thomas Hardy Change Flux Reflux Truth Wisdom

Jude leaped out of arm's reach, and walked along the trackway weeping--not from the pain, though that was keen enough; not from the perception of the flaw in the terrestrial scheme, by which what was good for God's birds was bad for God's gardener; but with the awful sense that he had wholly disgraced himself before he had been a year in the parish, and hence might be a burden to his great-aunt for life.

~ Thomas Hardy

Thomas Hardy Classics God

That it would always be summer and autumn, and you always courting me, and always thinking as much of me as you have done through the past summertime!

~ Thomas Hardy

Thomas Hardy Romance

You ride well, but you don't kiss nicely at all.

~ Thomas Hardy

Thomas Hardy Romance Sex

If Fancy's lips had been real cherries probably Dick's would have appeared deeply stained.

~ Thomas Hardy

Thomas Hardy Love Romance

Let truth be told - women do as a rule live through such humiliations, and regain their spirits, and again look about them with an interested eye. While there's life there's hope is a connviction not so entirely unknown to the betrayed as some amiable theorists would have us believe.

~ Thomas Hardy

Thomas Hardy Betrayed Durbyfield Hope Life Tess Of The D Urbervilles Thomas Hardy

The yard was a little centre of regeneration. Here, with keen edges and smooth curves, were forms in the exact likeness of those he had seen abraded and time-eaten on the walls. These were the ideas in modern prose which the lichened colleges presented in old poetry. Even some of those antiques might have been called prose when they were new. They had done nothing but wait, and had become poetical. How easy to the smallest building; how impossible to most men.

~ Thomas Hardy

Thomas Hardy Architecture Buildings Poetry

My weakness has always been to prefer the large intention of an unskilful artist to the trivial intention of an accomplished one: in other words, I am more interested in the high ideas of a feeble executant than in the high execution of a feeble thinker.

~ Thomas Hardy

Thomas Hardy Art Competence Creation Creativity Passion Skill Technique Writing

A novel is an impression, not an argument; and there the matter must rest.

~ Thomas Hardy

Thomas Hardy Argument Debate Impression Novel Writing

Bathsheba loved Troy in the way that only self-reliant women love when they abandon their self-reliance. When a strong woman recklessly throws away her strength she is worse than a weak woman who has never any strength to throw away. One source of her inadequacy is the novelty of the occasion. She has never had practice in making the best of such a condition. Weakness is doubly weak by being new.

~ Thomas Hardy

Thomas Hardy Love Relationships

When women are secret they are secret indeed and more often then not they only begin to be secret with the advent of a second lover.

~ Thomas Hardy

Thomas Hardy Lovers Relationships Secrets Women

The Scotchman seemed hardly the same Farfrae who had danced with her, and walked with her, in a delicate poise between love and friendship - that period in the history of a love when alone it can be said to be unalloyed with pain.

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Thomas Hardy Courtship Love Relationships The Mayor Of Casterbridge Thomas Hardy

Gabriel Oak: It's time for you to fight your own battles... and win them too.

~ Thomas Hardy

Thomas Hardy Battle Hardy Inspirational Attitude Life Lessons

I have no fear of men, as such, nor of their books. I have mixed with them--one or two of them particularly-- almost as one of their own sex. I mean I have not felt about them as most women are taught to feel--to be on their guard against attacks on their virtue; for no average man-- no man short of a sensual savage--will molest a woman by day or night, at home or abroad, unless she invites him. Until she says by a look 'Come on' he is always afraid to, and if you never say it, or look it, he never comes.

~ Thomas Hardy

Thomas Hardy Books Fear Men Molest Seduction Sex Socializing Virtue Women

Like all people who have known rough times, light-heartedness seemed to her too irrational and inconsequent to be indulged in except as a reckless dram now and then; for she had been too early habituated to anxious reasoning to drop the habit suddenly...Her triumph was tempered by circumspection, she had still that field-mouse fear of the coulter of destiny despite fair promise, which is common among the thoughtful who have suffered early from poverty and oppression.

~ Thomas Hardy

Thomas Hardy Elizabeth Jane Fear Life Poverty Rationality

As to our going on together as we were going, in a sort of friendly way, the people round us would have made it unable to continue. Their views of the relations of man and woman are limited, as is proved by their expelling me from the school. Their philosophy only recognizes relations based on animal desire. The wide field of strong attachment where desire plays, at least, only a secondary part, is ignored by them—the part of—who is it?—Venus Urania.

~ Thomas Hardy

Thomas Hardy Desire Friendship Love

It was then that the ecstasy and the dream began, in which emotion was the matter of the universe, and matter but an adventitious intrusion likely to hinder you from spinning where you wanted to spin.

~ Thomas Hardy

Thomas Hardy Dreams Senses

Joan Durbeyfield always manged to find consolation somewhere: 'Well, as one of the genuine stock, she ought to make her way with 'en, if she plays her trump car aright. And if he don't marry her afore he will after. For that he's all afire wi' love for her any eye can see.' 'What's her trump card? Her d'Urberville blood, you mean?' 'No, stupid; her face - as 'twas mine.

~ Thomas Hardy

Thomas Hardy Humour Trump Card

It is difficult for a woman to define her feelings in language which is chiefly made by men to express theirs.

~ Thomas Hardy

Thomas Hardy Women

Did it never strike your mind that what every woman says, some women may feel?

~ Thomas Hardy

Thomas Hardy Alec Feelings Strength Tess Women

She was of the stuff of which great men's mothers are made. She was indispensable to high generation, feared at tea-parties, hated in shops, and loved at crises.

~ Thomas Hardy

Thomas Hardy Mothers Women

Backlock, a poet blind from his birth, could describe visual objects with accuracy; Professor Sanderson, who was also blind, gave excellent lectures on color, and taught others the theory of ideas which they had and he had not. In the social sphere these gifted ones are mostly women; they can watch a world which they never saw, and estimate forces of which they have only heard. We call it intuition.

~ Thomas Hardy

Thomas Hardy Women

Everybody must be managed. Queens must be managed. Kings must be managed, for men want managing almost as much as women, and that's saying a good deal.

~ Thomas Hardy

Thomas Hardy Humor Kings Men Queens Women

[She] soon perceived that as she walked in the flock, sometimes with this one, sometimes with that, that the fresh night air was producing staggerings and serpentine courses among the men who had partaken too freely; some of the more careless women were also wandering in their gait. . . . Yet however terrestrial and lumpy their appearance just now to the mean unglamoured eye, to themselves the case was different. They followed the road with a sensation that they were soaring along in a supporting medium, possessed of original and profound thoughts, themselves and surrounding nature forming an organism of which all the parts harmoniously and joyously interpenetrated each other. They were as sublime as the moon and stars above them, and the moon and stars were as ardent as they.

~ Thomas Hardy

Thomas Hardy Alcohol Women

When a strong woman recklessly throws away her strength she is worse than a weak woman who has never had any strength to throw away.

~ Thomas Hardy

Thomas Hardy Women

Was once lost always lost really true of chastity?

~ Thomas Hardy

Thomas Hardy Lost Women

Some women’s love of being loved is insatiable ; and so, often, is their love of loving; and in the last case they may find that they can’t give it continuously to the chamber-officer appointed by the bishop’s licence to receive it.

~ Thomas Hardy

Thomas Hardy Love Marriage Women

How very lovable her face was to him. Yet there was nothing ethereal about it; all was real vitality, real warmth, real incarnation. And it was in her mouth that this culminated. Eyes almost as deep and speaking he had seen before, and cheeks perhaps as fair; brows as arched, a chin and throat almost as shapely; her mouth he had seen nothing to equal on the face of the earth. To a young man with the least fire in him that little upward lift in the middle of her red top lip was distracting, infatuating, maddening. He had never before seen a woman’s lips and teeth which forced upon his mind with such persistent iteration the old Elizabethan simile of roses filled with snow.Perfect, he, as a lover, might have called them off-hand. But no — they were not perfect. And it was the touch of the imperfect upon the would-be perfect that gave the sweetness, because it was that which gave the humanity.

~ Thomas Hardy

Thomas Hardy Beauty Imperfection Love Perfection

He grew away from old associations, and saw something new in life and humanity. Secondarily, he made close acquaintance with phenomena which he had before known but darkly - the seasons in their moods, morning and evening, night and noon, winds in their different tempers, trees, waters and mists, shades and silences, and the voices of inanimate things.

~ Thomas Hardy

Thomas Hardy Humanity Life Nature

People go on marrying because they can't resist natural forces, although many of them may know perfectly well that they are possibly buying a month's pleasure with a life's discomfort.

~ Thomas Hardy

Thomas Hardy Discomfort Force Of Nature Marriage Matrimony Nature Pleasure Self Deception

On the morning appointed for her departure Tess awoke before dawn — at the marginal minute of the dark when the grove is still mute save for one prophetic bird, who sings with a clear-voiced conviction that he at least knows the correct time of day, the rest preserving silence, as if equally convinced that he is mistaken.

~ Thomas Hardy

Thomas Hardy Nature Realism

Tess was awake before dawn — at the marginal minute of the dark when the grove is still mute, save for one prophetic bird who sings with a clear-voiced conviction that he at least knows the correct time of day, the rest preserving silence as if equally convinced that he is mistaken.

~ Thomas Hardy

Thomas Hardy Bird Dawn Nature

And then he again uneasily saw, as he had latterly seen with more and more frequency, the scorn of Nature for man’s finer emotions, and her lack of interest in his aspirations.

~ Thomas Hardy

Thomas Hardy Fate Nature

Her experience had been of a kind to teach her, rightly or wrongly, that the doubtful honor of a brief transit through a sorry world hardly called for effusiveness, even when the path was suddenly irradiated at some half-way point by daybeams rich as hers. But her strong sense that neither she nor any human being deserved less than was given, did not blind her to the fact that there were others receiving less who had deserved much more. And in being forced to class herself among the fortunate she did not cease to wonder at the persistence of the unforeseen, when the one to whom such unbroken tranquility had been accorded in the adult stage was she whose youth had seemed to teach that happiness was but the occasional episode in a general drama of pain.

~ Thomas Hardy

Thomas Hardy Life Living Pain Suffering

If we be doomed to marry, we marry; if we be doomed to remain single we do.

~ Thomas Hardy

Thomas Hardy Marriage Marry Single
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