No boundary or barrier surrounds the heart of a person that loves their self and others.

~ Shannon L. Alder

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Sometimes your belief system is really your fears attached to rules.

~ Shannon L. Alder

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When you lose your ego, you win. It really is that simple.

~ Shannon L. Alder

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God doesn’t give us pain to make us strong. He gives us strength to look inside ourselves and realize we are not innocent victims. When you learn humility, you are no longer a victim because a humble man is not self-absorbed. He seeks to understand why people are hurting him and takes responsibility for his part in their grief. Humility doesn’t dwell with anger or pride, and neither does God.

~ Shannon L. Alder

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Your body is a temple, not a daily dumping ground for another person’s pain, anger, betrayal, judgment, hypocrisy, denial, games, jealousy or blame. When you are being psychologically, spiritually or emotionally abused by a person, and they don’t care how it hurts you, then it is time to leave what is polluting your relationship with God.

~ Shannon L. Alder

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