Accomplishments don’t erase shame, hatred, cruelty, silence, ignorance, discrimination, low self-esteem or immorality. It covers it up, with a creative version of pride and ego. Only restitution, forgiving yourself and others, compassion, repentance and living with dignity will ever erase the past.

~ Shannon L. Alder

Shannon L. Alder Accomplishments Anger Betrayed Bitterness Blindsighted Blown Off Broken Hearted Compassion Confidence Creativity Dignity Dumped Ego Erasing The Past False Confidence False Worth Forgiveness Forgiving Others Freedom Games Giving Growth Hatred Hidden Agendas Hurt Ignored Inner Joy Inner Peace Live Free Low Self Esteem Move On New Beginnings Obvious Peace Pride Proud Proving Worth Real Value Rebel Repentance Restituition Revenge Seeking Approval Self Hatred Self Love Spiritual Growth Start Over Steps Of Repentance Stubborn The Past Truth Truth Follower Value

You can't always expect people to apply your wisdom when they didn't use wisdom before they found themselves knee deep in their version of justice.

~ Shannon L. Alder

Shannon L. Alder Actions Anxiety Arrogance Bad Choices Best Friends Bias Blind Blindsighted Bullying Choices Commonsense Consequences Consequences Of Cruelty Consequences Of Desire Consequences Of Evil Coverups Cruelty Cyberbullying Enviousness Envy Faith Faithless In God False False Intentions Fear Forgiveness Friends Games Heartless Ignorance Injustice Insecurity Intentions Jealousy Justice Justified Justified Assumptions Knowledge Liars Lies Lies We Tell Ourselves Logic Logical Logical Thinking Lust Lustful Neighbors Pain Paybacks Repentance Revelation Revenge Revengeful Rumors Sin Sinners Smoke Screens Speculation Stalkers Stereotypes Strangers Stupidity Uneducated Uneducated Mind Unjustified Unwise Friends Unwise Men Unwise People Victims Of Abuse Victims Of War Wisdom

Her wounds brought her a great source of power because they lived in the same place as her heart.

~ Shannon L. Alder

Shannon L. Alder Blindsighted Courage Fortitude Grief Lessons Learned Love Resilience Strength Survivor Survivor Of Abuse True Love Victim Wounded

People that don't know what they are worth will always see their capture's wings, but never their tail.

~ Shannon L. Alder

Shannon L. Alder Bad Marriages Be Better Blindsighted Brainwashed Courage Cruel Devil Evil Evil Wives Gideon Hateful Hateful People Have A Conscience Have A Heart Have Compassion Have Self Respect Immature Immoral Insecure Insecure Men Insecure Women Lack Of Compassion Living A Lie Love Yourself Repressed Rise Up Self Confidence Smuck Staying For Kids Stupid Choices Stupidity Used Whipped Your Living A Lie Your Wife Is Evil

A deceitful man will go as far as to trample all over a woman’s reputation and spirit, in order to prove to his ex-love that he was faithful. The irony, is he is still in love with his ex and the new woman in his life doesn’t even realize it.

~ Shannon L. Alder

Shannon L. Alder Anger Battles Within Betrayal Blindsighted Cheater Cheaters Children Competition Desperate Fraud Gullible Women Lack Of Trust Memories Player Stimulus Seeking Stupidity Tempation The Past Unfinished Business Weak Women

Sometimes your belief system is really your fears attached to rules.

~ Shannon L. Alder

Shannon L. Alder Accountability Anxiety Barriers Belief Systems Beliefs Beliefs In Yourself Blinded Blindsighted Boundaries Brainwashed Bravery Breaking Free Controlled Direction Diversity Expectations False Beliefs Fear Fearful Fearless Fears Freedom Growing Growth Hurts Idealist Introspection Knowing What You Want Learning Listening Ocd Open Minded Open Minded Life Openness Ownership Pain Past Personal Growth Perspective Perspectives On Life Prisoners Road Blocks Rules Self Discovery Self Esteem 101 Self Evaluation Self Imposed Pain Staying Positive Stayingpositiveu Com Stereotypes Taking Control Unrealistic Expectations Victomization Walls Wisdom

People that hold onto hate for so long do so because they want to avoid dealing with their pain. They falsely believe if they forgive they are letting their enemy believe they are a doormat. What they don’t understand is hatred can’t be isolated or turned off. It manifests in their health, choices and belief systems. Their values and religious beliefs make adjustments to justify their negative emotions. Not unlike malware infesting a hard drive, their spirit slowly becomes corrupted and they make choices that don’t make logical sense to others. Hatred left unaddressed will crash a person’s spirit. The only thing he or she can do is to reboot, by fixing him or herself, not others. This might require installing a firewall of boundaries or parental controls on their emotions. Regardless of the approach, we are all connected on this network of life and each of us is responsible for cleaning up our spiritual registry.

~ Shannon L. Alder

Shannon L. Alder Adversity Anger Management Attitude Bad Attitude Blaming Others Blindsighted Brokenness Changing Perspective Character Choices Computers Denial Doormat Ego Emotions False Confidence False Ego Foolish Forgiveness Hard Hearted Hatred History Internalizing Judgemental Lack Of Compassion Life Life Challenges Negative Pride Problems Reboot Relationships 101 Sad Self Help Self Reflection Self Righteousness Spiritual Death Spiritual Health Stayingpositiveu Com Stubborn Superiority Tests Trials Unforgiving Unhappy Values

Never stand in the way of letting God use people’s actions, in order to solve a greater issue in the world.

~ Shannon L. Alder

Shannon L. Alder Actions Adversity Bias Blinded Blindsighted Boredom Character Choices Civil Rights Consequences Consequences Of Evil Cruelty Cyberbullying Evil Evil Actions Evil Doers Fear Games God S Plan Hacking Haters Human Rights Violations Hypocrisy Ignorance Injustice Judgers Liars Lies Meddling Mental Health Stigma Obsession Perception Satan Selfishness Sinners Stalking Stereotypes Trials Tsloama Warped Wicked Witch Hunts Wrong Acts Wrong Choices

Piety /pi•e•ty/ (modern definition)1. When you use Christ’s teachings to put someone in their place out of anger and self-righteousness. It is the number two reason people leave the faith. The first is pride.

~ Shannon L. Alder

Shannon L. Alder Anger Arrows Blindsighted Clever Cunning Evil Doing Evilness Fake Kindness False Righteousness Inactive Members Losing Faith Loss Of Holy Ghost Lost Lost Members Lost Testimony Need To Be Right Obvious Piety Pious Possessed By Satan Pride Relgion Rightness Sacralige Satan S Tools Silver Tounged Twisted Scriptures Vengeful Very Lost Winning Wisdom Worst Thing You Can Do

Every insecure soul has a government of their own and a paid judge in their court room.

~ Shannon L. Alder

Shannon L. Alder Backwards Blindsighted Closed Off Cyberbullying False Sense Of Control Fearful Inhumane Insecurity Judgement Lack Of Control Lack Of Humanity Sinner Truth