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No boundary or barrier surrounds the heart of a person that loves their self and others.

~ Shannon L. Alder

Shannon L. Alder Barriers Boundaries Change Denial Dignity Forgiving Freedom Healthy People Insecurity Letting Go Limits Loving One Another Low Self Esteem Passive Agressive Behavior Protection Reaching Out Respecting Others Rules Self Love Self Protection Self Respect Self Worth Spiritual Growth Self Denial Stunted Tolerance Trust Truth Victom Victomization Walls Worthyness

Suddenly finding myself imprisoned in the ruins of the fortresses I created, I realize that that which I built to protect me has now become a labyrinth that is set to destroy me. And laying spent in the rubble, I finally realize that there is only one fortress and I cannot create it because there is only one God.

~ Craig D. Lounsbrough

Craig D. Lounsbrough Boundaries Boundary Captive Christian Christianity Defense Defense Mechanisms Defensive Destroy Destruction Fail Failure Fortress Fortresses God Imprisoned Jesus Jesus Christ Protect Protection Rubble Self Protection

It takes courage to let go of the past and all the mechanisms you have put in place, in order to ease your pain, regret and fear through avoiding responsibility for it.

~ Shannon L. Alder

Shannon L. Alder Barriers Courage Courageous Dating Denial Family Fear Fearless Fearlessness Friendships Hurts Love Loved Ones Marriage Pain Parents Past Protecting Ourself Regret Relationships Relationships 101 Self Improvement Self Protection Self Realization Walls

She surveyed the undergrowth and focused on a cluster of fern fronds curled tightly against the new life they had been given. She often wondered why the fern’s new existence was so firmly wound up. But she questioned their response no longer. Oaklee felt every muscle in her body want to curl up in self-protection, to comfort the pain, anger, and fear.

~ Jesikah Sundin

Jesikah Sundin Anger Elements Fear Ferns Pain Self Protection The Biodome Chronicles Willow

We use our minds not to discover facts but to hide them. One of things the screen hides most effectively is the body, our own body, by which I mean, the ins and outs of it, its interiors. Like a veil thrown over the skin to secure its modesty, the screen partially removes from the mind the inner states of the body, those that constitute the flow of life as it wanders in the journey of each day. (p.28)

~ António R. Damásio

António R. Damásio Avoidance Body Denial Hidden Life Mind Screen Self Preservation Self Protection Veil

The best lightning rod for your protection is your own spine.

~ Ralph Waldo Emerson

Ralph Waldo Emerson Confidence Courage Courage To Be Oneself Independent Thought Lightning Lightning Rod Pride Protection Self Belief Self Determination Self Esteem Self Protection Self Reliance Independence

Being in a state of denial is auniversally human response tosituations which threaten tooverwhelm. People who were abusedas children sometimes carry theirdenial like precious cargo without aport of destination. It enabled us tosurvive our childhood experiences, and often we still live in survival mode decades beyond the actual abuse. We protect ourselves to excess because we learned abruptly and painfully that no one else would.

~ Sarah E. Olson

Sarah E. Olson Abuse Survivor Child Abuse Defense Defense Mechanism Denial Protection Psychology Repression Secret Secret History Self Protection Survival Survivor Trauma Traumatic Memories Traumatic Stress Victim

Volatile expressions of anger and hostility combined with a tendency to blame others often result from feeling shame.... If you are shame-prone, any accusation directed at you, regardless of how mildly it may be delivered, has the potential to make you feel that you have failed or that you are inadequate. Rather than simply admit wrongdoing, you get angry and accusatory in order to hold yourself blameless. Using anger or hostility for self-protection hides your vulnerability and needs. Unfortunately, since most people are repelled by an angry response, this method may be effective. Your anger may drive away the very people who should know your real feelings, and it may deprive you of the opportunity to allow others to be aware of your needs. Behaving in an offensive or frightening way toward others can cause them to retreat out of fear. But, actually, the fear is your own, which you have turned against someone else in the form of anger.

~ Mary C. Lamia

Mary C. Lamia 2009 Anger Fear Psychology Self Protection Shame

These times are hard, but I won't walk away jaded, darker, different. I feel. I cry to heal. If you saw me in those moments, maybe you'd think I was a mess. But I don't call it a mess. I call it strength.Real strength isn't about building walls. Real strength is about staying open, no matter what. It's about taking life—with all the pleasures that fade and all the pain that sticks around for too long—and not shutting down, not closing down, not building up those walls.Resilience isn't hard, impenetrable, iron. Resilience is flexible, soft, warm. Stay strong. The real kind of strong. Don't let your automatic mind reflexes make you jump away from pain and towards pleasure. Make choices. See clearly. And never, ever, stop feeling.Don't go numb. The world, even with all its horror, is too beautiful to miss.

~ Vironika Tugaleva

Vironika Tugaleva Emotions Feeling Feelings Healing Mess Self Love Self Protection Strength Strong Vulnerability

Blame doesn't empower you. It keeps you stuck in a place you don't want to be because you don't want to make the temporary, but painful decision, to be responsible for the outcome of your own life's happiness.

~ Shannon L. Alder

Shannon L. Alder Blaming Others Control Emotions False Perception Fear Happiness Living A Lie Overcoming Ownership Regret Relationships 101 Self Awareness Self Improvement Self Protection Settling

My only defense is the acquisition of vocabulary.

~ Margaret Edson

Margaret Edson Defense Self Protection Vocabulary Words

No one wants to occupy a black hole of sadness and despair or slip on the tight rope that separates sanity from insanity, and reside in a vortex devoid of reality. I entered the world as a freeman and desire to escape a state of existential vertigo. I yearn to discover a synthesizing spirit of my being and hold my head high, free of doubt, and devoid of fear. I wish to foment the cerebral energy to stave off premature destruction and forevermore blunt an intolerable state of anguish.

~ Kilroy J. Oldster

Kilroy J. Oldster Anguish Bliss Despair Desperation Enlightexistential Crisis Insane Insanity Sad Sadness Sadness Quotes Sanity Self Preservation Self Protection Suffering Transformation Quotes

There’s often a reason why people and dogs bite. It’s about self-protection. If we respect what we may not know about the suffering of others and look at them compassionately, we open the door that can lead to understanding.

~ Jennifer Skiff

Jennifer Skiff Compassion Dogs Inspirational Self Protection Suffering Understanding

Never allow yourself to become a choice in any relationship. The moment you do is when you have reduced your loved one's affections to a daily biological question: Should I take a dump here or wait till I get home?

~ Shannon L. Alder

Shannon L. Alder Awareness Choices Commonsense Confidence Dating 101 Dignity Healing Life Coach Marital Advice Marriage Relationship Advice Relationships Relationships 101 Self Protection Self Respect Single Woman Singles Tidy Bowl Tough Love Women Empowerment

I am never proud to participate in violence, yet I know that each of us must care enough for ourselves that we can be ready and able to come to our own defense when and wherever needed.

~ Maya Angelou

Maya Angelou Self Defense Self Love Self Preservation Self Protection Violence

Most of your healing journey will be about unlearning the patterns of self-protection that once kept you safe.

~ Vironika Tugaleva

Vironika Tugaleva Emotional Healing Emotions Healing Self Healing Self Protection

The anger response, like the fear response, is a frequent target for repression. Imagine a 6-year-old girl who is angry at her 10-year-old brother for teasing her. In response, she might make an angry face, yell at her brother, and strike out at him with her fists. It’s an instinctual, energizing reaction designed to protect her from danger. Someone is violating her sense of well-being, and she’s afraid that if she doesn’t stop the intruder, she’ll get hurt.“A wise parent would validate the girl’s anger — it’s infuriating to be teased — and help her find a verbal rather than a physical way to express it. ‘You are very mad at your brother for teasing you,’ says this model parent, ‘I would be, too. Tell him in words how angry you feel. He needs to know.’ This way, the girl can protect herself from her brother and purge herself of her anger without having to resort to physical violence. Her self-protective anger remains intact. It has simply been given a ore ‘civilized’ form of expression.

~ Patricia Love

Patricia Love Anger Anger Repression Repression Self Defense Self Protection

Anger is a legitimate feeling, one often designed for self-protection.

~ Kimberlee Roth

Kimberlee Roth Anger Emotions Feelings Self Preservation Self Protection

Raising Black children — female and male — in the mouth of a racist, sexist, suicidal dragon is perilous and chancy. If they cannot love and resist at the same time, they will probably not survive.

~ Audre Lorde

Audre Lorde Parenting Racism Self Protection Sexism

Lovers are not snails, they don't have to protrude from their shells and meet each other halfway. Meet me within your own self.

~ Jerzy Kosiński

Jerzy Kosiński Gender Relations Identity Isolation Love Lovers Relationships Self Protection The Human Condition

The guarantee of safety in a battering relationship can never be based upon a promise from the perpetrator, no matter how heartfelt. Rather, it must be based upon the self-protective capability of the victim. Until the victim has developed a detailed and realistic contingency plan and has demonstrated her ability to carry it out, she remains in danger of repeated abuse.

~ Judith Lewis Herman

Judith Lewis Herman Abuse Abused Women Battered Women Batterers Battering Domestic Violence Perpetrator Promises Protection Refuge Safety Self Protection Survivor Victim Victimization Violence

All children are born to grow, to develop, to live, to love, and to articulate their needs and feelings for their self-protection.

~ Alice Miller

Alice Miller Child Abuse Child Development Child Neglect Self Protection Violence

I know a little something about fear, honey. I know what a relief it feels like to give into it at first. It’s not hard to persuade yourself that you’re doing the right thing—that you’re making the smart, safe decision. But fear is insidious. It takes anything you’re willing to give it, the parts of your life you don’t mind cutting out, but when you’re not looking, it takes anything else it damn well pleases, too.

~ Andrea Lochen

Andrea Lochen Anxiety Fear Overcoming Fear Persuasion Self Protection

...Everyone struggles to guard their heart from breaking, when they should desire to have a heart that breaks...

~ John Geddes

John Geddes Break Guard Protect Self Protection Struggle

Talent is useful, but always keep your dagger sharp.

~ Amanda Quick

Amanda Quick Self Protection Talent

We are not supposed to run after miracles but we are supposed to run after self-perfection, self-growth, self - improvements.

~ Sunday Adelaja

Sunday Adelaja Miracle Quotes Miracles Self Growth And Improvement Self Protection

I found myself in a pattern of being attracted to people who were somehow unavailable, and what I realized was that I was protecting myself because I equate the idea of connection and love with trauma and death.

~ Zachary Quinto

Zachary Quinto Abuse Survivors Attraction Avoiding Commitment Avoiding Pain Dysfunctional Love Dysfunctional Relationship Healing Insights Relationship Problems Self Protection Trauma Traumatized

Boundaries help us to distinguish our property so that we can take care of it. They help us to guard our heart with all diligence. We need to keep things that will nurture us inside our fences and keep things that will harm us outside.

~ Henry Cloud

Henry Cloud Boundaries Healing Insights Metaphor Safety Self Protection

Putting words onto paper—when it is done as an honest act of search or connection, rather than as an act of manipulation, performance, self-aggrandizement or self-protection—is a holy act.

~ Pat Schneider

Pat Schneider Act Connection Manipulation Performance Search Self Aggrandizement Self Protection

It is almost as if we are all playing a big game of hide-and-go-seek. We all hide expecting to be found, but no one has been labelled the seeker. We stand behind the wall, at first excited, then worried, then bored, then anxious, then angry. We hide and hide. After a while, the game is not fun anymore. Where is my seeker? Where is the person who is supposed to come find me here in my protected shell and cut me open? Where is that one who will make me trust him, make me comfortable, make me feel whole? Some people rot on the spot, waiting for the seeker that never comes. The most important truth that I can relate to you, if you are hiding and waiting, is that the seeker is you and the world, behind so many walls, awaits.

~ Vironika Tugaleva

Vironika Tugaleva Authenticity Hiding Relationships Self Protection Truth Vulnerability
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