A.s. King Quotes

I was also built from delusional optimism and folly.

~ A.s. King

You can't change people with love. It doesn't work that way.

~ A.s. King

There is something magical about the world at night. Sitting at the dining room table, sipping a glass of iced tea, I can totally understand why Dad gets up so early. Minutes seem to last longer when the rest of the world is asleep.

~ A.s. King

I see it as symbolic. The label no longer fits. His emotional parsimoniousness just got sucked away by the beautiful blue sky. I lean forward and reach my hand behind my back, then take my sign off, and I toss it out the window, too. I am no longer an ex-stripper's daughter, either. I have gone from invisible Vera Dietz to invincible Vera Dietz.

~ A.s. King

As I load my shirt into the washer for the night, I daydream about making a sign and hanging it around my neck. I could wear it to school tomorrow. It could read, I MISS CHARLIE KHAN.

~ A.s. King

Listen to me. They may control what you do, but no one can pee on your soul without your permission.

~ A.s. King

It also makes my father right again. How will I ever soar with the eagles if I'm surrounded by turkeys?

~ A.s. King

Today I am in control because I want to be. I have my fingers on the switch, but have lived a lifetime ignoring the control I have over my own world. Today is different.

~ A.s. King

The trick is remembering that change is as easy as you make it. The trick is remembering that you are the boss of you.

~ A.s. King

It's safe to tell us stuff, okay? This means it's not safe to tell them anything.

~ A.s. King

You are not your virginity. You are a human being. The state of your hymen has nothing to do with your worth.

~ A.s. King

All those people who are chained here thinking that their reputations matter and this little shit matters are so freaking shortsighted. Dude, what matters is that you're happy. What matters is your future. What matters is that we get out of here in one piece. What matters is finding the truth of our own lives, not caring about what other people think is the truth of us.

~ A.s. King

Not living your life is just like killing yourself, only it takes longer.

~ A.s. King

As I load my shirt into the washer for the night, I daydream about making a sign and hanging it around my neck. It could read, I MISS CHARLIE KHAN.As I drive home, I picture other signs- one for everyone who has a secret. Bill Coro's would say, I CAN'T READ, BUT I CAN THROW A FOOTBALL. Me. Shunk's would read, I WISH I COULD TOSS YOU ALL ON AN ISLAND BY YOURSELVES. Dad's would read, I HATE MYSELF FOR NO GOOD REASON.

~ A.s. King

As I drive home, I picture other signs- one for everyone who has a secret. Bill Corso's would say, I CAN'T READ, BUT I CAN THROW A FOOTBALL. Mr. Shunk's would read, I WISH I COULD TOSS YOU ALL ON AN ISLAND BY YOURSELVES. Dad's would read, I HATE MYSELF FOR NO GOOD REASON.My Idea grows.

~ A.s. King

Then I think of Charlie and our first New Year’s apart, and how I miss him. I miss him so much, but it’s confusing, because I missed him long before he was dead, and that’s the bitch of it all. I missed him long before he was dead.

~ A.s. King

She launched the airplane and it caught a current and circled down toward the town, like a promise of something good.

~ A.s. King

The boys on the front had magazines with pinups, and they talked about how one day they would score women like that, but they’re kids. They don’t know what love is. Here they learn what hate is, and I am so sad that they might never know love because hate came first. Maybe they will miss out on having a woman like you, and I feel sorry for them.

~ A.s. King

You know that saying about how you don’t know what you have until it’s gone? I already did know what I had, and now that she’s gone, I know even more.

~ A.s. King

Suicide isn't something people do to hurt other people. It's something people do to release themselves from pain.

~ A.s. King

I'd rather feel something for real than pretend it's not what it is. Which Zen guy said If you want to drown, do not torture yourself with shallow water?

~ A.s. King

I picked up my camera and held it at arm's length and took a picture of myself not caring. I called it: Glory Doesn't Care.

~ A.s. King

I don’t have enough gross words in my gross vocabulary to describe how gross that gross thought is. Gross.

~ A.s. King

Here's my using dickwad in a sentence. Greg is such a dickwad, he locks his car in the Pagoda Pizza parking lot. (No. That isn't a real Vocab word.)

~ A.s. King

--he stopped and eyed Bill Corso--if you choose to just sit here like a bored jungle gorilla, you will have to write out this quote as many times as you can during the next hour.

~ A.s. King

Oh. I get it now. God had Nader beat my ass and my mom leave my dad just so Jodi could learn how to chop onions and use a propane grill. Great. Awesome.

~ A.s. King

maybe if people weren't so careless, then nothing would need to be caged.

~ A.s. King

I can't help seeing a cage for what it is. Sure, it protects the bulb, but maybe if people weren't so careless, then nothing would need to be caged.

~ A.s. King

Some of you have it ingrained in you. You weren't born with it. No baby has hate for anything. We were all babies once, right? This little guy doesn't care what country you were born in or what religion you might practice or how much you weigh or who you might love.

~ A.s. King

Sure, Mom.They stop and say hello, and then once you pass they talk the back off you like you were nothing. They assess your outfit, your hairstyle, and they garble what you say so it comes out ugly.

~ A.s. King

Isn't it funny how we live inside the lies we believe?

~ A.s. King

I'm sorry, but I don't get it. If we're supposed to ignore everything that's wrong with our lives, then I can't see how we'll ever make things right.

~ A.s. King

She smiled at me, and I never forgot it. Or more accurately, I always remembered it.

~ A.s. King

School’s important at the moment.Unsexiest statement ever.

~ A.s. King

What's the difference between sanity and madness anyway? We all play headgames with ourselves. We all have baggage. We all cope somehow. I'm not sure if I'm mad or sane. I mean, I hold my life together, I pay my bills, I raise my kids. But the world is so polarized and bizarre now that for some people, none of these these things matter if they're not wearing the right shoes or don't have the right credit score or a fancy family car. Some people think the most important things to worry about are handbags and tan lines. Meanwhile, war and crime and poverty unfold all around us, and we ignore it. In that environment, how can we even begin to talk about sanity and madness?

~ A.s. King

After I lie there for a while, I realize that Dad isn't every going to do anything but be there to drive us home from the airport. And cook. And if I want something bigger to change, it's up to me. I'm scared shitless, yes. I'm doubtful, yes. But I'm angry. Angry that I am doing this because Dad can't. But then I sniff breakfast, and I know that Dad is doing what he can.

~ A.s. King

She talks about how she can't exercise because of the ailments-a bad back, sore knees, breathing difficulties-all caused by her weight gain.

~ A.s. King

Look at our culture. Look at the computer-enhanced people we compare ourselves to. Look at the expensive cars and trinkets we're all supposed to have. Look at how many people are wrapped up in that! Imagine how much money and worry we'd save ourselves if we stopped caring what kind of car we drove! and why do we care? perfection. But there is no such thing, is there? And if there is, then everyone is perfect in their own way, right?

~ A.s. King

Even though I know that breaking your brain is the same as breaking your arm, I'm still ashamed that my brain is broken.

~ A.s. King

I wish for world peace, because it's about as likely to occur anything else I can wish for.

~ A.s. King