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It is better to be alone then to be in a relationship, while you are trying to figure out what love means to you.

~ Shannon L. Alder

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A daughter of God knows that insecurity is not an excuse for doing evil to others, nor will God rest until caring for everyone is a lesson you learn.

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We add caveats to prayers like seasoning to bad sauce. We hope for something else or something more, but we forget. Sometimes life isn’t the pleasure of the taste, rather the nutrition we get from it.

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Despite our disapproval with what God allows us to endure, he still remains the same God that is not interested in our convenience, as much as our character.

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Shannon L. Alder Annoyance Character Cruelty Disappointments Enduring Enduring In Style Frustration God Growth Hard Lessons Judgement Rising Above It

Have you heard of the most evil things done by people in their lifetime? They have coveted men's wives, killed hundreds of Christians and sold their best friend's life away for just a few coins. Isn't it interesting that they were God's chosen in the bible? ---Saul, Judas & King David

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I don’t believe in the Law of Attraction. There were things I wanted in my life that no amount of positive thinking was going to make it a reality for me. However, I have learned to believe in the Law of Tough Love. Life has thrown a dozen tragedies at me. I did what any Christian would do--prayed for the outcome I wanted, but God was tough and only gave me what I needed. I now realize that life is not about fulfilling a wish list; rather a need list. Good and bad experiences are on the horizon. How else does a person change, grow and evolve? And just like any warrior woman, I won’t simply survive-- but thrive!

~ Shannon L. Alder

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Life is as simple as these three questions: What do I want? Why do I want it? And, how will I achieve it?

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Shannon L. Alder Choices Decisions Goals Life Purpose 101 Life Questions Priorities Questions Questions In Life Simple Life Staying Positive University

It is not your talents that make you great, but your decisions.

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Shannon L. Alder Choose Choose The Right Commonsense Decide Decisions Ego Goals Good Choices Humble Humility Integrity Talents

Winning and losing is not an external game. It is an internal battle over telling yourself the truth vs. lies regarding why you haven’t stepped into the life you dreamed of.

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Shannon L. Alder Actions Choices Comfort Zone Decisions Doing Dreams Fear Generalizing Goals Internal Conflict Losing Negative Dialogue Negative Expectations Negative Thoughts Overthinking Rationalizing Settling Winning

When what you value and dream about doesn’t match the life you are living, you have pain.

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A goal will always tell you where you don't want to be.

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Shannon L. Alder Ambition Choices Decisions Goals Life Reminders Starting Points

When you have a plan in your mind of what the best life is for you, but it doesn't match your life, you have pain.

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Shannon L. Alder Action Anxiety Avoiding Choices Conflict Creating Denial Fear Goal Setting Goals Inner Peace Lack Of Courage Life Making Goals Mapping Your Life Moving Forward Pain Planning Plans Procrastination Putting Off What Is It You Want Why Do You Want It

The goal of a life purpose is not what you will create, but what it will make you into for creating it.

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Each of us has empty spaces in our heart that go through life being filled temporarily, by the various people we meet along the way. The trick is to find what needs to remain permanently filled in our soul and what needs to be filled occasionally through encounters.

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Shannon L. Alder Centered Choices Complete Desires Dreams Empty Spaces Feeling Full Fulfilled Goals Happiness Knowing Yourself Life Direction Life Purpose Needs Not Empty Oneness Stayingpositiveu Com Wants

Don’t say you don’t have enough time or enough money to change the world. You have exactly the same number of hours per day that were given to Helen Keller, Gandhi, Michelangelo, Mother Teresa, Leonardo da Vinci and Jesus Christ.

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Shannon L. Alder Activism Attention Beethoven Choices Christ Christianity Copeouts Create Music Dance Destinations Dream Big Dreams Excuses Focus Gandhi Gifts Goals Helen Keller Inspire Invent Journeys Leonardo Da Vinci Michelangelo Mother Teresa Procastination Pushing Yourself Serve Stop Settling Talents Teach Write Books

You can't be creative without criticism. If your life is without critics then maybe you are painting your life's masterpiece with only a broken brown crayon.

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Shannon L. Alder Achievements Ambitions Attention Choices Crayons Criticism Critics Dream Big Dreams Dull Life Gambles Goals Gossip Mill Humor Lack Of Criticism Life Masterpiece Risks Success Successful Willingness To Be Out There

Try not to be a man or woman of success, but rather a man or woman of inspiration. If you’re successful, they will flock to you for money or fame, but if you’re inspirational, they will flock to you because they love your soul and how you change theirs.

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Shannon L. Alder Achievements Aspirations Fame Goals Goodness Inspirational Life Choices Life Mission Life Purpose Life Pursuits Money Pursuits Success Truth

Some people need significance more than they need another person. Change will only happen in a relationship when you realize it is not the person, but the emotion you desire.

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Shannon L. Alder Ego Emotion Need For Validation Needs Relationships 101 Self Significance Validation

What you give meaning to is what causes your emotion. Before you react know why you are giving something so much energy or fear. When you begin to understand why you give things meaning you can begin to change how you react and why you do what you do.

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Shannon L. Alder Anxiety Drama Fear Giving Things Meaning Introspection Meaning Reacting Reactions Reactor Responder Understanding

Right person, wrong timing doesn’t mean God was wrong. It means you were there at the right time to fulfill something else. Look for it.

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Shannon L. Alder Clever Meaning Message No Coincidence Preplanned Purpose Right Person The Truth Timing Wrong Timing

The only person that deserves a special place in your life is someone that never made you feel like you were an option in theirs.

~ Shannon L. Alder

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I have known friendship love, parental love, romantic love, family love and unrequited love in my life time, but the only love that made a difference was self love. You don't need confirmation from the world or another person that you matter. You simply do matter. When you finally believe that truth and live it then you can do amazing things with your life!

~ Shannon L. Alder

Shannon L. Alder Confirmation Empowerment God S Love Self Acceptance Self Esteem Self Love Self Worth Warrior Men Warrior Women

The only real conflict you will ever have in your life won’t be with others, but with yourself.

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Unrequited love is the only emotion that allows sane people to taste the “life sentence” of someone with bipolar disorder. The longer they hang onto a lost cause the more unstable they look to everyone else. They contradict their own belief systems and statements, by circling the drain with two competing emotions—love and hate.

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When you love yourself you will never need closure from any man. That doesn't mean you didn't love him, it simply means you love yourself enough to realize God has a better plan for you that doesn't involve one more conversation that will remind you of that person's lack of respect for you.

~ Shannon L. Alder

Shannon L. Alder Closure Confidence Dignity Empowering Women Relationships 101 Self Esteem Self Respect

You will never let go of the past by ignoring the most painful thing the person you loved has done to you. When you begin to minimize it, second guess yourself and others, ignore it or even pretend it didn't happen you cheat yourself out of healing. Naturally, your mind would rather believe the lies you are telling it, rather than accept the truth. The soul has a way of protecting itself from trauma, but if left in denial there is no growth or change. Healing requires going to that place you avoid and asking yourself why you are so afraid to accept the reality of what happened to you? Why have you minimized it like this person has wanted you to? What is it about your self esteem that allows you to continue being a doormat?

~ Shannon L. Alder

Shannon L. Alder Acceptance Accepting Being Cheated On Betrayal Doormats Emotional Infidelity Fools Games Lies Low Self Esteem Self Esteem

Empowered Women 101: If he can't tell other women that he is happily married and acts in a way that suggests he isn't fully committed then he isn't happy. He is keeping his foot in the door for a better opportunity should it not work out with you. Real women don't need to investigate. They invest in their self confidence and worth by not allowing their man to disrespect them. They are not afraid to ask themselves the tough questions: Why am I letting this man humiliate me and value me less than others? Why have I allowed myself to become a doormat?

~ Shannon L. Alder

Shannon L. Alder Adulterers Cheaters Empowering Women Lack Of Confidence Low Self Esteem Players Self Esteem

A person that doesn't know their worth will never know yours. Therefore, the longer you hang onto hope that they will finally see your worth is the moment you start to depreciate in value.

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Never chase a person that doesn't know your worth because the moment you catch him you will always feel you were never good enough.

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Shannon L. Alder Confidence Dignity Empowering Women Integrity Knowing Your Worth Pride Self Esteem Self Worth Women Worthless

If you live life on your own terms it shouldn’t feel like a jail cell.

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When you only know your faults and failures, you allow yourself and others to downgrade your dreams and belittle your wants.

~ Shannon L. Alder

Shannon L. Alder Confidence Faults Finding Confidence Guilty Knowing Your Strengths Knowing Your Value Minimizing Your Needs Minimizing Your Wants Relationship 101 Self Esteem Self Esteem 101 Self Worth Stayingpositiveu Com

The only love you have to prove in life is your love of God and helping others. Anyone that can't see that has proven themselves to be unworthy of your time because why would you spend your life with someone that can't tell the difference between a diamond and dirt?

~ Shannon L. Alder

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I am convinced that the jealous, the angry, the bitter and the egotistical are the first to race to the top of mountains. A confident person enjoys the journey, the people they meet along the way and sees life not as a competition.

~ Shannon L. Alder

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It is better to stay single and wait for the one that makes sense then to marry someone that makes absolutely no sense. The moment you settle is when the one person that makes all the sense in the world shows up and Satan sits back and enjoys your spiritual meltdown.

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God never uses one approach to the get his job done in the world. Each soul has its own way of being reached. He has put inside of each of us an unique song, that only another heart can hear clearly. To wish you were someone else robs another human being of the special blessings, talents and gifts God meant for you to share.

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When a person thinks you are too good for them, they create a wall without even taking a chance. The best life that God has in store for a person is often thrown away because of what he or she thinks they deserve. True love is not the life you had, but the life you never realized you could have.

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Shannon L. Alder Believing Best Friends Choices Confusion Friendship God God S Plan Love Past Potential Relationships Searching Seeking Self Confidence Self Esteem Signs Storms Trials Trusting Worthyness

If you're stressing over happiness, you're doing it wrong!

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Conformity begins the moment you ignore how you feel for acceptance.

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Shannon L. Alder Acceptance Acceptance Of Oneself Anxiety Apathy Choices Collective Order Conformity Denial False Security Fear Insecurity Laziness Locus Of Control Self Belief Self Denial Self Esteem Settling Wrong Choices

Worry is like a roller coaster ride that you think will take you somewhere, but it never does.

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Shannon L. Alder Add Anxiety Emotions Fear Mental Disorders Roller Coaster Self Esteem Sensitiveness Worriers Worry Worrying Worrying Over Nothing

A life out of balance is a person that doesn’t believe happiness can be achieved now, or in the future. It is as fleeting as the wind.

~ Shannon L. Alder

Shannon L. Alder Anger Attitude Authentic Self Balance Balanced Life Buddhism Chemical Imbalance Emotional Balance Happiness Internal Conflict Issues Mental Disorders Self Awareness Self Choices Self Defeat Self Defeating Self Esteem Self Respect Self Worth Sorrow Spiritual Balance True To Yourself
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